uuugh I hate technology. I just finished what I thought was a stellar description of myself and what I am looking for and as I was spell checking it......poof, back arrow somehow. Clicked back and my masterpiece was gone. I'm sure you understand how deeply distressing this damn techie crap can be. And i thank you for you empathy and well wishes. So I guess we are just going to have to talk about all the great adventures and accolades in my life. I love being a goof and brains are just as if not more important to me than boobs....well i may have to ponder that one for a while. Anyways. I look forward to finding you.