I have been on this site for about a month now and I really hate to say this but I have to... Please have a car, a job, if your the kind that flakes out on meeting someone the day of or a hour before, please move on to the next guy. I'm not looking for a little girl i'm looking for a women.
I am a very out going guy, very spontaneous and enjoys the little things in life... I have made some of the best friends a person could ask for the past few yrs... I have played sports all my life and I play in a men softball league and a co-ed kickball league... I am a very friendly, honest and positive person... I love to travel and one of my passions is cooking.. My friends love when I show up to a party with food and its normally gone in mins...lol..... I have a great life, job, family.. Sometimes I can be a little rough around the edges, I may curse a little more than I should, I have no problem telling someone to their face I dont like them, Or tell a douche that wont leave a friend alone to beat off. But I was raised to be a gentleman so open a door for the girl I'm with or showing up with flowers for no reason at all, or giving her that compliment when you need it the most just comes natural... I watch my grandfather half my life, which I would define as a real man treat my grandmother like gold. He never took crap from anyone, he worked hard till the day he died and he take the jacket off his back in a second so my grandmother didn't have to step in a puddle... That man my idol in life.. The reason I have goals, drive, and when i'm done on my knees I stand right back up...
I don't really have a type of girl, I think every girl is beautiful in her own way... I like a girl that has her own friends, has her life going in a positive direction... I like a girl that is social and has no problem fitting in with my friends and is not stuck by to my hip... I mean how am I suppose to look across the room and say to myself "she so damn gorgeous"...lol.... I also am a sucker for a pretty smile..
I am not a mass dater. How can you get to know someone if you talk to everyone.. Yea looks are great but they fade.. To me personality is key, someone who can laugh at my stupid jokes, or someone who can come back with a smart ass line.. To me life is about having fun, and that is what a relationship should be... I am I guess what you would call a free spirit, I can have fun anywhere with any one... But I do avoid drama and with my business I cant afford to get into double by the law...
A couple of years ago I decided to let my life long friends go, just negative people still stuck in the glory days... And i knew I needed change to be more successful in life, One day I was on craigs list and replied to a add looking for friends and out of all my dumb decisions in life this one turn out for the best.. I honestly can say just cause of that one add I have made some of the best friends I ever had in my life, honest, goal driving, careers all ready set. And that is what i want in meeting someone.. A person that surrounds their self with positive people and avoids negative people... And no drug users please, I have lost a couple friends to drugs.. with that said I will never have anything to do with drugs or people that do drugs....
