A perfect relationship for me would be described as "Friendship on Fire". I have the time and ability to travel, short or longer trips. I believe a good relationship should support and strengthen each other. We have ourselves to credit or blame for most of our happiness or unhappiness but the right person can make it fun and a lot easier. What's important is to do our part and enjoy the journey. I'll either find the humor in something or create it. I'm comfortable in social and business situations and am not threatened by my mate's achievements because I have my own and respect the excellence of others. I try to be a posirve influence on people and the world around me.
I'm seeking someone who has a good heart, is attractive to me, and appreciates life. Love quiet and active times and want to enjoy them with someone special. She should expect me to earn her trust but, once earned, allow herself to drop the barriers and be capable of deep affection. I am most natural with an intelligent and creative woman that loves to play. I prefer private evenings over groups of friends but enjoy both. I have yearly passes to the SD Zoo, Sea World, and three live theaters. Living in SoCal gives us endless opportunities and I'm open to learning new ones. I'd like to start slowly but desire more than something casual. I'm a high energy person but don't need or expect you to always join me. Shared interests are wonderful but separate interests and even friends are healthy, too. I'm not looking for someone to obey me. I seek a partnership. I'll take the lead but have great respect for another's feelings and opinions. I'm the eldest of four sons and our parents made sure we could take care of ourselves. What I do want is that special smile that comes from kindness and intimacy. You'll find it returned.