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Sporty Wanderer - same age as J. Lo!

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42 year old woman
New York, New York, United States

Seeking:
men 39-50
Within:
20 Miles of New York, New York, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Someday
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'10" (177cms)
Faith:
I'll tell you later
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

Inverted pyramid lead here thanks to my brother and to the "know your audience" rule. Brother says many of the women meets online don't represent themselves accurately. He says this and I wince in pain. So here's the truth.

I'm a tall, white, Irish-looking woman who is in good shape as a former athlete, but my glory days are over, so I do normal gym time now and eat well. I am in my early 40s and I love what I do. I am open to considering many possibilities of a future with kids if it's the right choice for all parties involved. I am sure I look younger than most of my male counterparts who are exactly my age, including my brother, who is three years younger than me. I would like to add here that he's completely bald and about 30 lbs overweight, but I still love him anyway and I have zero against bald guys, but the 30 lbs is definitely tough to look past. My brother did not appreciate my flagging of his additional padding, even though he would be all over my case every minute if I ever put on 30 lbs.

I reminded my brother that I am the same age as J. Lo. I admitted that I look absolutely nothing like her. He doesn't like to laugh at what I say, but he laughed. I said she doesn't seem to be struggling in the hotness department, yet I do think she has been married multiple times and wasn't there an odd report on her last boy toy? I'm not sure what any of this means except that it kept my kid brother entertained. I said go for older women. We rock, but I may be biased. I told him what my friend Dan (my age) said once that he was looking for women younger than him until he said to himself one day, "Wait, why am I being such an ___? What is wrong with my dating women who have been on this earth as long as i have? How much more arrogant can I get?"

I love Dan. I should have married him, but I couldn't because he quickly fell in love with an older woman.

Recently, I've dated many nice and successful guys - no harm, no foul. I always feel badly when they insist on paying for dinner, although sometimes they do not and if I am not interested and they're kind and thoughtful, I often try to pay. I have in fact paid the bill in the past, which is just insult to emasculation, and something they will never get because even though I am lapsed Catholic, I am still Catholic.

Went out to dinner last week w/my 38-year-old single guy friend who is courting a younger woman (of course) who's 28, and she's being "a tad hesitant" after one month of calling her every day. I said, "What were you at 28? Sleeping with everyone. This isn't the 1960s." He said, I know, I know, but I'm more focused now and I know what I want and it's a game of numbers, it's a game of building up the balls to go make a move and taking a big risk. If we want something, we go for it."

One of the first dates I went on many years ago via match was with a Harvard grad who was a former college athlete turned 50-mile runner who ran maybe 3-4 companies at every given moment. I think he was late 30 or early 40s and I was early 30s. He told me exactly what his wedding would look like and how he would turn to the crowd and thank them all and he knew what he would say. He had the speech written. Then said he and his wife would go on to have five kids and he's going to coach all of their sports teams. I sat there awestruck at his clarity. He leaned in and said, "What do you want?" I looked down at the menu and said, "I'll take the tuna melt. Hold the fries."

I never answered his question, which is probably why he got terribly frustrated with me.

I think I want to be pleasantly surprised by someone roughly my age - someone who gets me and someone I get because he's a good soul who takes care of himself and the people he loves. And if we both get what we want, the places we'll go.

Interests:
Alumni connections, Book club, Coffee and conversation, Business networking, Dining out, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Playing sports, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Watching sports
Sports & exercise:
Basketball, Cycling, Dancing, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga, Other types of exercise, VolleyBall
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
I'll tell you later
Political views:
Liberal
Sign:
Gemini
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

I enjoy working for my own company, doing volunteer work, watching movies and trying new things. I am currently learning Spanish. I shoot and edit my company's videos and photos.

Favorite hot spots:

I've been fortunate enough to see most of the country thanks to my athletic and writing careers. I've played sports in Greece, Budapest, Israel. Recently for fun and/or business I went to Dublin, the Dominican, Saudi Arabia, Colombia and Spain.

Favorite things:

Learning new things. Listening to Spanish music, TV, radio. Podcasts. Surrounding myself with bright, funny, cool people from many walks of life. Wandering around another country. Going places I should not go or so they say.

Last read:

CNN, CNN Espanol, NYTIMES every a.m. and a mix of books. I try to listen to Spanish as much as I can to help with my learning, but I know when it's annoying to others.

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'10" (177cms)
5'9" (175cms) to 6'10" (208cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Blue
No preference
Hair:
Auburn / Red
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker
Occupation:
Artistic / Creative / Performance
No preference

I'm an entrepreneur in charge of my own non-profit company. I love what I do but if I don't get my creative fix in, I do start to go nuts.

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
No preference
Have kids:
No
No answer
Want kids:
Someday
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference

Retired college and pro athlete

Faith:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Languages:
English, Spanish
No preference
Education:
Graduate degree
No preference

Journalism major who ran an entrepreneurial path ... now running sports non-profit and creating an exciting project or two. I am also mildly obsessed with learning Spanish at the moment.

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