Hi and thanks for taking the time to look at my profile. Im not a fan of the online dating scene. Have we become so shallow that we raise the bar so high that we cant even reach it? Become so selfish we cant even say high or acknowledge someone being nice and sincere? Then we wonder why we are alone.
I'm a laid back fun loving guy who enjoys meeting people. Not struck on just a cute face and a small waist, internal beauty is a must. Im a determined man not a desperate man. Im always a gentleman never selfish. I see people not color. If God can be color blind why cant we???? What's inside a person's heart and soul is what matters the most. Im just a guy with a big heart enjoying life.
I like to do things that real men do, and if you dont know what that is you havent met a real man. Im not into playing games, drama, booty calls(there should be a site for that), pen pals, hurting, or being hurt I just want to have fun with just one, the right one.
I dont play hard to get but I am cautious with my heart. Im not rude, nor stuck up. I believe in love and romance. Im no prince but I can be charming, I'm successful, happy, and determined not at all desperate, I'm no serial dater, and I do know how to treat a lady. My compliments are just sincere so please be kind and appreciative if you can. If I strike an interest good, if not no worries I wont chase nor stalk you I leave that to the desperate and the dogs. Im not dumb enough to think Im the only one youre chatting with Im smart enough to know the process of may the best man wins.
I seek someone who has a great sense of humor, enjoys movies, isn't afraid of not being in control. Someone who appreciates being treated nice and having someone who listens. Someone who wants to stop reading about the fairy tale romance and live it.
Has a spontaneous/daring side. Down to earth not selfish or shallow, incredible kisser,color blind, loves PDA. Someone looking forward not living in the past. A good friend and great lover of life. Some who can watch the sun set and not kill the moment. Someone who compliment my life not complicate it and I do the same. Im not looking for what you do or have I have my own. Im looking for the person who does something without having to have it validated or something material in return, someone secure. Someone who can separate their career from their identity. Meaning your job is what you do not who you are. Someone who has something unique to bring to the table.
Yes Im real, Im no dog not a Playa too mature for that. Like the very few who truly seek it, true love continues to elude me. And for me there is no safe sugar substitute. I know exactly what Im looking for, Im not trying to find myself or hide who I am. So if youre really looking for a man who will take you by the hand whisper in your ear " baby dont worry I got this under control" and be the man he should be Im your guy.
Footnote: I dont mind hearing you vent about your past bad experience but plzzz dont compare me unless you want me to do the same :-) Everyone knows what they dont want but are never certain about what they truly want or need.
Everyone wants to ride with you in the limo, but what I want is someone who will take the bus with me when the limo breaks down.
I miss those days of talking about how that special lady makes me smile to family and close friends. I miss those days of sending flowers knowing her beauty makes the flowers jealous and her smile they bring brighter than the sun. I miss those days seeing her enter a room and watching everyone pause, look and think WOW, myself included. I miss those days of holding her in my arms and thinking how lucky Iam. These simple things are so hard to find and helps true love to continue to elude those who really want it