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My therapist thinks I'm ready for this, so I asked my ex's and 7 out of 8 agreed with him. Couldn't find #8. Think she ran off w/ the circus

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51 year old man
Surprise, Arizona, United States

Seeking:
women 39-60
Within:
500 Miles of Surprise, Arizona, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (2)
Want kids:
I'll tell you later
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'11" (180cms)
Faith:
Christian / Protestant
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

Do I really, truly need to explain that my headline is a joke? Seriously? I thought it was kind of funny. But I do have my own set of Perfect Bacon Bowls.
This is the part I always dislike the most because I dislike arrogance and like to think I'm a rather humble and unassuming man. To me this all seems like self-promotion, because in a way it needs to be. How do I tell you what I believe are my best qualities without sounding as if I'm attempting to "sell" myself? I find humility a far more admirable and desirable trait. Finding the line separating confidence from arrogance is sometimes difficult, and the line between them can be so fine at times that it is easy to cross without even realizing it.
People who know be best would say that I can be a contradiction in some ways. My traits seem to be at both ends at the same time. I can be very firm and defend a position I am passionate about with the greatest ardency, yet also open minded and readily accept other perspectives when I am convinced I should see things in another light. I am not averse to admitting when I make a mistake and offering an apology, as this is NOT a weakness. I like to think this complexity, or diversity, is what makes me interesting. I do have rather eclectic tastes, interests and desires, but once you get to know me it won't seem so complicated. I can be intense and analytical, but relaxed and easy going. I can plan for everything down to every detail, because I don't enjoy being caught off-guard, but I am also very spontaneous and love surprises (the enjoyable variety, of course) and can even be impulsive at times. I also have very strong ideas regarding right and wrong, making the best choices, doing right by others before you do for yourself, and be devoted and committed. These are non-negotiable, as are honesty and fidelity.
I want to see the world, and have traveled extensively, but love my home and find comfort and refuge there. I am mature, confident, stable and grounded, but I love taking a cruise and doing nothing, or spending a day at Disneyland rediscovering the little boy in me. I think you get the idea regarding my "complexities".
I'm up for doing anything that doesn't land me in the morgue or prison, and I'm always interested in a new adventure. However, I'm not a real fan of doing them alone, so I'm anxious to find a travel companion, partner in crime type to join me and sit back when we get home and reminisce about what we just enjoyed as we sit on the terrace and enjoy together a bottle of fine wine and watch the sun set, or maybe try to recreate that interesting cocktail we both liked while in Tahiti.
I want someone with whom I can share my world and have her show me hers. We should complement one another; two halves of one whole. Similar interests but not clones. Same goal so we're working to get there together, but with our own ideas about what will make the journey interesting, and then let's go there as partners and equals, best friends. I enjoy and appreciate a woman who takes care of herself and is a little "high-maintenance", and I even enjoy shopping. I hope to find a woman who wants a man who freely gives to her, enjoys the attention, and is not so independent that she's intimidated by a man who wants to shop for shoes with her, brings her flowers, opens her doors, carries her bags, brings her gifts for no reason than he was thinking of her, and wishes to give in return. I'm not "clingy" and don't want a woman who is either, but two people in love should enjoy and appreciate one another when they're together. If they are put off by that or "need their own space", there's a problem. If I spend 10-12 hours a day giving myself to my career and the kids I teach and coach, why should I not want to spend my other 5-6 waking hours with my lady? Just sayin'. Besides, I'll have dinner waiting when you get home, along with a hot bath and a glass of wine. By the way, I'm actually 52. I didn't want to be excluded from your search.

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Gardening/Landscaping, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Playing cards, Shopping/Antiques, Travel/Sightseeing, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Auto racing / Motorcross, Basketball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Football, Golf, Dancing, Weights / Machines, Hockey
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
I'll tell you later
Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Don't display my sign
College:
Arizona State University, Tempe, AZ
For fun:

I'll try most anything that doesn't land me in prison or the morgue, especially if it has anything to do with being outdoors or traveling. I'm not real big on posting photos of my travels, but it does help to explain me and my passion.

Favorite hot spots:

I'm pretty versatile here. Sometimes I enjoy a quiet hole-in-the-wall, other times I like a lot of energy. I enjoy entertaining friends so every couple of months the hot spot is at my home. When I travel, it's Cabo, Odessa (not TX), or Barcelona

Favorite things:

Wow, too many to list...cultural and sporting events, movies, cooking, riding horses, bowling, meeting friends for happy hour, entertaining friends, making a woman feel special....AND TRAVELING! Did you pick up on the travel thing yet? CHOCOLATE!

Last read:

I don't usually read fiction, sorry. I'd rather wait for the movie, then take you to see it so you can tell me how it didn't follow the book. I do, however, read a lot of non-fiction; Bible, "Currency Wars", "How Chance and Stupidity Changed History"

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'11" (180cms)
5'3" (160cms) to 5'9" (175cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes:
Hazel
No preference
Hair:
Dark brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
No preference
Occupation:
Education / Teacher / Professor
No preference

I teach high school Geometry, but my passion is Medieval and Renaissance history of Europe, thus the penchant for traveling and reading. Just need a suitable travel partner. Haven't been to the Caribbean yet, but if we connect, I'll suggest we go!

Income:
$75,001 to $100,000
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
No preference
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (2)
No answer
Want kids:
I'll tell you later
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference

My immediate background is German, with a touch of Jew in there as well but that was the grandparents, so we never practiced it. The distant heritage of my surname is Kashubian. If you know anything about these people, you're my lady!

Faith:
Christian / Protestant
Christian / Catholic, Christian / LDS, Christian / Protestant, Spiritual but not religious, Christian / Other

My faith is extremely important to me, but my mind and heart are open, just as every Christian's should be. I don't push my beliefs onto anyone, and I accept everyone. It's not my place to judge but I would expect us to have similar core beliefs.

Languages:
English, German, Russian, Spanish
No preference
Education:
Bachelors degree
No preference

B.A.Ed from ASU, heading back to school for my Masters in school administration. Always trying to learn from life, especially my mistakes. An open mind, humility, intelligence, confidence and compromise are important to me, and desirable in a partner

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