Unique the key characteristic explaining who I am. After losing my husband to stomach cancer at the age of 35, I can only say that i dont take life for granted. I've focused my life pretty much around my 2 wonderful kids, and it shows by who they have become as adults. But now as my kids say its my turn. Im an honest to goodness woman who can say "yes there are good woman still out there" Im the whole kit and kaboodle. Im looking for an honest man, who is not afraid of telling me how hes really feeling, one who wants to share and create great memories, on top of always sharing a great smile and loads of laughter. Here is what im not looking for? A guy who calls mommie all the time. And another that is not over an X. If ur currently seperated please don't bother. And honesty has to be a key component for a great foundation that will lead to a successful relationship.