Im looking for someone who can be my best friend. Of course I want to be attracted to him, but looks aren't everything. I need him to understand that God is first in my life. Id love for him to be a reader, good listener, very intellectual but loves to be goofy and have a good time too. I want a man who loves sports especially football and basketball. I also love a man who is assertive and manly. I dont care for the soft hands type. I like a strong manly man who doesnt mind getting his hands dirty, because I certainly don't. I believe in work hard, play hard as a motto. I also believe in budgeting and managing one's money well. Ultimately, Im looking for my soul mate and future husband. Seems far-fetched from what Ive experienced, but I also follow the motto 'love like it ain't gonna hurt'. So, im willing to give this love thing one last chance, I just wonder if there are any serious men out there who want the same thing?