I just haven't figured out how to meet the right guy. I have had a lot of dates and its never mutal, either he likes me more than I like him, or the other way around. Why is it so hard to connect to the right person these days? What are men looking for nowadays?Is there a guy out there that wants a woman that is attractive, affectionate, fun, witty, intelligent, loving, in good shape, honest, has a heart of gold, giver? I believe that I am meant to be with someone. I don't want to settle just because I am lonely. I want to find a guy who makes me feel beautiful, someone who can't wait to see me at the end of the day, a man who can't wait to kiss me good morning and good nite. I miss being with someone so much. I don't have children so I have a lot of time on my hands. I do workout and hang out with friends, but am looking for my friend, my best friend. I have so much love to give and I am such a giver. I would be the best girlfriend that any guy would want. I would let him go out with his friends, smoke a cigar once in a while with his buddies, watch football and act like a little kid, have sex whenever he wants it, lol, I won't ask him to go shopping with me, I will let him go play golf on the weekend as long as he comes home to me for a wonderful evening. I am older now and I know what I am looking for. in a partner. I want to be in love and I have so much to give. I believe that life is meant for two people to experience together. I am older now and I know what I want... I want to meet someone who will knock my socks off or my platform shoes, lol. Someone who is not afraid of showing affection, whether its in public or at home.