i am on here because i am a single mom and i dont have the freedom of going too many places too often to meet someone and my spontaneous side is compromised. whoever i date needs to understand and respect that first and foremost.
im a tomboy but i look like a girly girl, my 4 favorite things are poker, football sushi and red wine. im a huge goof and a dork at heart, my heart is huge and knows no limits, i am the girly girl next door who isnt afraid to get dirty, let my hair down and has a little wild side, im a free spirit. im looking for that balance. a smart, driven, motivated intelligent funny man who is a gentlemen and romantic yet strong and a manly man, one who can carry a conversation about politics or religon (which i love studying) and a conversation with substance but can also be a total goof and can tell jokes and recite cheesy movie lines until i have tears in my eyes. sense of humor is huge for me! a man who really knows how to make a woman feel like a lady. makes me feel wanted and desired and beautiful. looks, attraction, passion and chemistry are important to me. if you smell good then extra brownie points i love cologne and i think scents can create memories. someone whos fun, free spirited and an emotionally healthy and respectable, stable person.
I was born and raised in northern ca, east bay however i ventured to southern ca, orange county (newport beach to be exact) for 3 years and i was spoiled being that close to the beach everyday and i miss the sound of the waves, im pretty sure my wardrobe consisted of a bikini and flip flops! i have been back in northern ca since 09. I am independent and can take care of myself however i wouldnt mind feeling like a princess for a day here and there, i love surprises and cute things that require thought, im a rare mixture of an extremist, explorer and a total homebody. I've climed Mt. Katahdin which is part of the famous Appalachian Trail, I've gone level 5 white water river rafting in the Penobscot River in the beautiful state of maine, if it's sunny then you can find me outside, I love the outdoors. I love road trips and get aways to new random places that I've never been to before. I love concerts, live music and outdoor festivals, if I'm not out tapping into my explorer side then I'm doing something more laid back like sitting at a poker table i play on a weekly basis, im pretty darn good ;) or cooking and sipping on some good wine. I love people watching and walking around farmers markets, I'm all over the board. I can go out for a night on the town and go dancing, or cuddle up for a movie night in one of those oh so attractive snuggies. I'm pretty much game for anything. i am obsessed with lemons and dont go a day without them, i drink lemon water 24 7 literally to me its my coffee, i love documentaries and if im up late you'll catch me watching poker after dark, or anything about real estate or remodeling or investing in income properties (hgtv!) although i dont id like to soon, i like to stay up late when the rest of the world is sleeping, i talk alot and fast, if im quiet im either sick, tired, thinking, or somethings wrong, my mom is my best friend and my grandma is my hero shes lived to be 95 and still played poker and was married to my grandpa for 72 years thats right thats not a typo 72!! ... that pretty much sums me up. at the end of this i would love to have found the one who takes my breathe away but who knows!
ps if you can tell me what movie this line is from then you'll totally score extra points!-
big gulps huh? ...(pause)....welp see yah later!