I am the kind of woman that is not typical. What is it about me that stands out? I am content with being alone, however I choose to have the companionship. I'm loving and giving. Even at 38 I'm still very sweet.
I'm goofy. How so? When I'm running outside in SF, when at a stoplight I routinely dance to my music. I choose to be silly at times . I blame that on the runner's high.
I am lighthearted. Not too many things need to taken seriously. My profession, yeah. Outside of that... Not a whole lot.
I am happy with where I am in life so far. I've made hard choices to get here. Were they really that difficult? Never settle in life. But I also realize that nobody is perfect.
What am I doing lately with my life? Live shows, walks in SF with the dog, art galleries, museums, being more of a local. Checking out different cafes, Fillmore St is fun. Trying out different restaurants, options are endless in the city. Peruvian food is one of my favorites. No excuses for being bored. Expanding my bubble beyond the Lower Nob Hill area. Trying to spend time with people that mean the most to me.
Next adventure, using a newly acquired scooter to zip around SF. Weeeeeeeee!
Oh yeah.... I run a lot. Cross train too. Yoga, elliptical, weight lifting, improving my biggest weakness- my core.
I am kind, caring, adventurous, positive. Real. I feel like I've blossomed in my 30's.
I am attracted to guys who are intelligent/educated, professional, established in their life/careers, witty and fun/active, easy going, and optimistic too! I do want to be with someone who has a strong moral compass. Someone with good judgement. However, if you are a little crazy, wild...that can be good too! :)
If you have read up to here.... I am set on the age range for dating. And really....if you are not in physical shape enough to hang with me on a run, we won't be a match. I won't take you seriously if you are in your mid 20's?
Sorry... Not gonna work although flattering.
My match wants to explore this crazy world together. Spontaneous is good....how about planning a last minute trip/adventure going out to a new restaurant, doing something you/we have NEVER done before--just for the heck of it, because it sounds like fun...someone who is not set in the same mindset, who is not stuck in their ways...someone who will at least consider a different perspective/approach to doing something a different way.
Someone who cares about our world and actually improving it and contributing to society.
Someone who values friends and family and has a positive attitude and has a good sense of humor/loves to laugh. SMILES!!! Someone who is HAPPY with their life the way it is right now- for the most part. Otherwise you wouldn't be on an online dating site and then you'd miss an opportunity to possibly meet me!! ;)
I realize that this is all a pitch about how wonderful I am. Have i convinced you yet?
Am I perfect? Of course not. I can tell you the good far outweighs the bad. I am a pretty nice person to be around. I am real. Some say that is the Midwest in me. I like to joke around. I have a good idea about who I am and what it is I want in life. Ive done quite a bit of dating in the past year . i have a good idea of what I want in a match. Some things are that you've got to work out on a regular basis, preferably run. What works best for me is for you to be close in age to me. You don't smoke/ no illicit drug use/no heavy drinking. I want someone who isn't judgmental. Someone who is loving and affectionate. These are a few of the more important characteristics for my match.
If any of this pitch sounds like we may be a good pair, send me a few thoughtful words. Winks are nice but let's just cut to the chase and start dialogue. Ultimately a meet and greet will be in order if the vibe is right. There will either be chemistry or there won't. Lets find out!
