My concern lies only in pleasing those important to me, and myself. "Honey, let's take a trip to Fiji" is an example of how spontaneous that I can be, sometimes!
I'm a 60 year old guy who lives very comfortably, and very much want to share my enthusiasm with a bright, attractive, like minded woman. I'm unpretentious and straightforward, possess a healthy sense of humor, and enjoy making people laugh.
I also enjoy cooking, and can be persuaded to cook the gourmet meal of your choice. After all, living and loving is also about sharing!