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Funny and creative man looking for similar qualities in an attractive woman with style. Quirks welcome.

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46 year old man
Long Beach, New York, United States

Seeking:
women 36-45
Within:
40 Miles of Long Beach, New York, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (2)
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
Asian, White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
Height:
5'11" (180cms)
Faith:
Jewish
Smoke:
Yes, but trying to quit
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

I can be funny, creative, and I like doing new things, but I am also laid back and like to relax with a good book or watch Netflix. I am a very dedicated person, to my two daughters especially, ages 13 and 15, and currently focusing on a new field in New York (my original home and where I love to be). Every few weeks I go to visit my girls (which I would make more often if job allowed). Nothing is harder than being away from them.

My ideal partner is a thinker, should be attractive to me physically, creative minded, could be an artist but doesn't have to be one (creativity has many forms). I've always been drawn to someone unique with a sense of personal style (quirky is cool by me). She should not be a follower or someone who just goes to the gym. I respect someone who is ambitious, and this can mean you work at a job, but if you don't work there is still something that drives you in your daily life. I am confident in myself but I am human and still have weaknesses like anyone.. I strive to better myself and believe living is partially about self-improvement besides the pursuit of love and taking care of family. I'm not religious, but respect my partners beliefs. I'd love to find someone who is not worried about her social status, because it means little to me. I favor genuinely modest people who have integrity and honesty, but I'm not keeping score. I believe I will find that someone special who can take the journey with me and we could be that old couple who holds hands or causes a little mayhem. Oh, did I mention I'm really funny and I like to laugh. I really enjoy going to live stand-up comedy - I am a big fan of Louis C.K. and David Cross.

I definitely know there is someone out there for me. She just has to show some courage, meet me halfway, and not be afraid to reveal herself. She has to look beyond the profile (this one!) and take a chance. Too many people in this online dating thing judge too quickly (I'm better in 3 dimensions). I have returned to Match.com for another try, so be gentle (or gentile is fine too).

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Performing arts, Playing cards, Playing sports, Travel/Sightseeing, Video games
Sports & exercise:
Baseball, Basketball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Cycling, Football, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, VolleyBall
Exercise habits:
I exercise 1-2 times per week
Pets:
I have Cats
Pet Essay:

I grew up with dogs, but one day on the spur of the moment I adopted a cat from a shelter. Now I can't imagine not having this cat, and my kids love her too! I'm kind of open to having a dog eventually if I can get over the high-maintenance part.

Political views:
Liberal
Sign:
I don't believe in astrology
College:
Queens College of the City University of New York, Flushing, NY
For fun:

Spend time with my kids, playing sports, being outside, going to the beach or pool, finding interesting festivals, museums, watching movies and TV, Netflix, discovering new places, going to Barnes and Noble, the library, reading, listening to music.

Favorite hot spots:

Love NYC, Vegas, and dive bars where we can hear each other without the loud music of a dance club. I prefer conversation w/coffee or drink instead of pretending to be into a mob scene. If you want dancing every week, I'm not your man.

Favorite things:

Alone time with my one love. Many genres of movies and music; mostly rock and indie stuff, favs: R.E.M., Beatles, Graham Parker, Mumford/Sons, Regina Spektor, Nick Cave. TV favs are Fringe, Lost, Tosh.0, MadMen, BreakingBad, Sopranos, Dexter, Sheild.

Last read:

Currently reading "The Age Of Miracles."

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'11" (180cms)
4'11" (149cms) to 5'7" (170cms)
Body type:
About average
Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Blue
Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Dark brown
Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Dark blonde, Platinum
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
Yes, but trying to quit
Occasionally, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation:
Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering
Administrative / Secretarial, Artistic / Creative / Performance, Executive / Management, Financial / Accounting / Real Estate, Labor / Construction, Legal, Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness, Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military, Retail / Food services, Sales / Marketing, Self-Employed / Entrepreneur, Education / Teacher / Professor, Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering, Travel / Hospitality / Transportation, Other profession, Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist, Law enforcement / Security / Military, Fashion / Model / Beauty, Architecture / Interior design

I ran a family business for the last 10 years, then lived in Texas for a little while. Now, I'm back in New York. I love what I do and look forward to going to work everyday Ideally, I would love it if my partner was happy with what they do.

Income:
I'll tell you later
$35,001 to $50,000, $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship:
Divorced
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (2)
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
Not sure
Definitely, Someday, Not sure, Probably not, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Asian, White / Caucasian
Asian, White / Caucasian

My parents have Russian and Polish roots, grew up in Brooklyn, New York. I grew up in Long Beach, New York. I know that isn't ethnicity, but when you think about it, knowing where I'm from paints more of the picture.

Faith:
Jewish
Agnostic, Atheist, Jewish

I do not practice the customs of my Jewish background. I am fine with someone who practices their religion, as long as there is no expectation of converting me. I'm happily non-religious.

Languages:
English
English
Education:
Bachelors degree
High school, Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

I was not in a Fraternity, and I do not consider my school years the best years of my life. I say this to point out that I've always felt life progressed for me and only got better as I got older. Can't ever live in the past, you get one go around

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