I am average guy when it comes to looks, I am above average in everything else. Ive noticed the internet is a very vain place with things like that and ive never really tried a dating site...but ive got time on my hands and i haven't been too social lately because ive immersed myself in my writing. Im in my mid-twenties but ive already accomplished a lot in regards to goals and achievements. Growing up I was very social but these days, not so much. So I dot really know what i looking for.. just a connection. Someone I can talk to and who might share a mutual understanding of life and love, and can be there for the basic necessities that make life worth living.. Im looking for a women with a sense of humor, but also has a dark side. Ive delt with a lot of damaged people in my life, so im leaning toward safer mind sets..a women with goals who is also free-wheeling ya know? Someone who understand the difference between solitude and isolation.. or just someone to chat with and become friends, a good women who will get my back if I need it.