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37 year old man
Santa Monica, California, United States

Seeking:
women 30-40
Within:
50 Miles of Santa Monica, California, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'10" (177cms)
Faith:
Buddhist / Taoist
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

In trying to somehow verbalize "my ideal match" I found it incredibly difficult to paint some picture of who you are or what you do. In fact, now that I think about it, almost all of the boilerplate questions we answered before are almost inconsequential! Does what kind of dog you have or what you do for a living make you my soul mate? (Somehow, I think not!)

When it comes down to it, I would love to meet a partner who is right there next to me. A beautiful, special woman who shares in similar qualities and interests while accepting each other as we are in this moment. We are by no means perfect. We are soulfully drawn to one another, have done our personal work and know what it means to be both a partner and an individual.

You and I share many of these qualities:

Adventurous
Aware
Creative
Soulful
Accepting
Spiritual
Deep
Calm
Open
Sensual
Athletic
Insightful
Nurturing
Encouraging
Joyful
Thankful
Humble



We have a love of the ocean, the outdoors and the natural world. We prefer a good vista to the latest tweet (#ugh), a dolphin swimming past to the latest celebrity gossip. We appreciate nice things but know they do not mean happiness.

Note: I do realize this is possibly a bit heavy for a personals ad, but I'm just being honest!

And now if you've gotten through all that, a bit more about me:

I'm 36. I moved to LA two years ago after "doing" 12 years time in New York City running my own business as a commercial advertising photographer. If you've ever lived there you know why all ex-New Yorkers use the phrase "I did X years there" as in " I did X years hard labor at that prison. " I still do the photography but am looking towards the next steps in my career path, towards something more hands-on and design oriented.

I'm divorced. Twice actually. Don't wince, its ok. I'm not a lunatic. First time I was way too young, I had just turned 22. Second time I jumped in too quickly, refusing to look at the obvious all around me. Both times I was too much into my career. I suppose you as the reader could see them either as strikes against me, or that I've done some deep soul searching and personal work since. Obviously I hope you see it as the latter. I definitely do.

Lets see... what else? How do I not tell you *everything* so you have nothing else to ask me about on our first (amazing) date? Generally speaking I lean towards either quiet, soulful experiences (I have a regular meditation practice and lean towards the introverted side) countered by adrenaline-pumping in-nature adventures that bring about the high of aliveness. (surfing, skydiving, snowboarding etc) Even writing that I can see how those examples could seem like quite the oxymorons - but they're actually two sides of the same coin.

So enough about me. I look forward to your story.

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Dining out, Exploring new areas, Religion/Spiritual, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Yoga, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

Gotta admit, I'm more of a cat guy than a dog-lover. That said, I seem to like dogs that act like cats. Oh, and Daschunds. For some reason I love Daschunds. Weird.

Political views:
Very Liberal
Sign:
Sagittarius
College:
Syracuse University, Syracuse, NY
For fun:

If I could do one thing the rest of my life...it would be surfing. Don't ask me why that's not on the previous "sports and exercise" list, but I digress. Most of my other activities revolve around the outdoors, exploration, the beach or motorcycles.

Favorite hot spots:

Surfrider beach, Malibu. Saddle Peak Road. Topanga canyon. London. And, anywhere I haven't been before, the more off the beaten track or exotic the better!

Favorite things:

Ok... the big disclosure: I don't own a TV. I'm clueless on that pop-culture front, but I have been known to catch Madmen here and there! Music wise I have a wide range, from Jazz to Bluegrass (the Avett Brothers) to Emo (Elliot, Fugazi etc.

Last read:

My last novel was the incredible 1Q84 by Haruki Murakami, and my all time favorite is Walden by Thoreau. On the non-fiction front you could say I'm a dharma bum, so I've been reading a lot of Tibetan Buddhist writings, especially by Chogyam Trungpa.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'10" (177cms)
5'2" (157cms) to 5'11" (180cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Dark brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker, Regularly
Occupation:
Self-Employed / Entrepreneur
No preference

Advertising photographer, entrepreneur, idea-guy and design geek.

Income:
$75,001 to $100,000
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
Never Married, Divorced
Have kids:
No
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
Definitely
Definitely
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference
Faith:
Buddhist / Taoist
No preference
Languages:
English
No preference
Education:
Bachelors degree
Bachelors degree

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