Complex, tortured artist seeks... okay, so I'm not an artist, or even tortured for that matter... but complex? Most definitely. Are YOU?
Life has been kickin' my butt lately, serving up many of life's lessons, but I remain positive (seeing them as experiences) while living a healthy life style (5'8" 131 lb and photo's are from Dec 2009 to Oct 2012). I am considered feminine, extremely sensual, romantic, good natured, generous, honest, a thinker and a "Neat-Nic". I embrace knowledge and am completely fascinated with the process of self-disclosure. I could talk about the weather, but would prefer to talk about material that really matters. If I know more about the external world but nothing of those close to me, or myself, I have failed to grasp reality. I am a student of life and love all that I learn from the people I meet and the places I go. I consider foreplay to be connecting in deep conversation and cuddling is my drug of choice. I am so ready to feel that flutter in my heart again, the one that tells me "yes, this is the one"! He will have experienced heartache, yet be vulnerable enough to surrender to love once again. I truly believe true love is worth taking a risk for!
My vacations will not likely involve a sleeping bag and tent. I'd prefer a beach side resort, a romantic cabin in the mountains, ski resort, a cruise, or traveling through Europe/exotic destinations. If you are a sports fanatic or an avid camper or hunter then we would not be a good match. Now with this being said, I know that most men do have their favorite team, and enjoy outdoor activities more often than not... it's the one's who take it to the extreme that I'm talking about, if you can't make it through a day without ESPN or would rather hunt with your buddies than share a concert or sporting event with a beautiful woman, then please do not respond to my ad! Also, if you are one of those men looking for perfection in a woman and your relationship, then you should move on from this profile. I am so far from perfect, and I don't expect you to be either. I enjoy stimulating conversation over a glass of red wine, a movie or just doing the day to day tasks together. I thrive when in love and enjoy playful banter, flirting and the kind of laughter that makes your stomach hurt. I also, have a passion for children (just because I didn't have them doesn't mean that I didn't want them), travel and photography. I try to stay active with many outdoor adventures like hiking, running, concerts, wine tasting and exploring new cities, but have learned it's more about who you are with than what you are doing. Having a thirst for knowledge, adventure and challenges I would love to meet someone who could teach me their passions as well... major plus, if you’re on the slender/fit side, love the ocean and have a passion for sailing, but these are just our vessels, I’m much more concerned with your character!
Ideal Man:
Interesting, successful, thoughtful, intelligent, AFFECTIONATE, honest, spiritual, considerate, respectful and COMPASSIONATE with a strong sense of self and exudes confidence without arrogance. I am attracted to EMOTIONALLY mature, handsome, healthy/fit, intelligent, polite, adventurous, SENSUAL and romantic men with a good sense of humor and looking forward to creating memories of adventures together! I'm sure we all are basically in search of the same things: someone to accept us, love us and someone who can make a difference or a hand print on our heart. I dream of a love that even time will stand still for, with a man who has the ability to take my breath away.
Deal breakers:
~Lacking Depth
~Poor Hygiene
~Poor Grammar ("Grammar is the difference between feeling your nuts and feeling you're nuts.")
FYI~ There is an epidemic of "Catfishing" here, so if you do not have more than one photo it's very likely I will not respond and sending me an email increases the odds over a wink... Thank you for reading my profile!
