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52 year old man
Aliso Viejo, California, United States

Seeking:
women 45-54
Within:
25 Miles of Aliso Viejo, California, United States
Relationship:
Currently Separated
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (2)
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Never

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

Wanted: Long-term relationship where joy, desire, security, passion and companionship are felt like a warm lingering hug even when we are apart.

I am a person who loves life and appreciates it everyday. I am affectionate, love to plan elaborate surprises, cook, spoil my partner with attention. I am serious, analytic and thoughtful at the right times. I have a very wide area of interests and enjoy humor in irony and acts of silliness. My friends sometimes call me MacGyver for my ability to fix and make things.

I believe in communication at an intimate level, committing your soul to the relationship with honesty and trust. To feel safe to share your vulnerabilities, hopes, fears and desires with a person that will not judge you.

I have 2 great boys, ages 19 and 20 who are very important to me. They are fun as they drive some of the activities that I do. At this age they are like “dust devils” appearing out of nowhere, causing me to drop everything to help and observe them, then, instantly disappearing again :) If you have children that would not scare me off!

I am completing divorce mediation and list myself as “separated” because I am not “officially” divorced. This is taking longer than I expected due to keeping the kids health insurance up. We have lived apart for over 4 years and although we are parents, this is not a relationship I would return to because, there has been no intimacy in communication or passion between us for a long time, just friends trying to do the best for our kids. You would not be a rebound as I have had time to heal and search my soul.

I have a relaxed nature and I don't drink alcohol by choice. I make a great designated driver, if you want to have a drink :)

For friends, I seek to meet people with a positive outlook on life, kindness, confidence, integrity, honesty, family, humor, and are active.

Your independence and goals are important to me. I value your intelligence, opinion, strength and wit for discussion and playful sparring. It is important for us to laugh, share, tell stories, and create new memories. I want my leisure time to have plenty of "together time" with you. Sharing experiences, meeting with friends, doing something new, doing nothing and balancing it with independent personal pursuit are ways that I would like to take the time getting to know you.

I find romance in snuggling near a fire, playing footsie under the table, sharing a steamy shower, spontaneous rendezvouses, delivering flowers for no reason other than to say "I am thinking of you". You will know that you are the center of my universe.. There are so many more things on this list I would like to share.

I am silly/playful at times, squeeze my butt while I am cooking and be ready to run through the house in playful pursuit.

I would rather play sports or be outside rather than watching them on TV. If you have a team to root for let’s do it!, I could use a reason to have a party with friends, or throw myself on the couch,(you won't find me there very often, unless it is there with you).

A friend once asked me "What does a great relationship look like to you"? This is a complex question and I have answered it with broad strokes.. a portion of it is below.

Communication:
Verbal - being able to express your needs, desires, dislikes, concerns in a manner that a man’s brain could understand (direct, factual, logical and without needing interpretation or reading between the lines) I will listen and make every attempt to determine the meaning. I am making light of this, although, I think that this is very important requirement for a solid relationship to have intimacy and trust in communication.

Non-Verbal – I believe that expressing ones love through touch is as important as love itself. Holding hands, acting like we are the only 2 people on earth.., yes, that may include PDA, to be continued.

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Gardening/Landscaping, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Performing arts, Playing cards, Playing sports, Political interests, Religion/Spiritual, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering
Sports & exercise:
Aerobics, Auto racing / Motorcross, Bowling, Cycling, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
I have Cats
Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Sagittarius
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

Romantic getaways to Santa Barbara, Big Bear, Vegas, Palm Springs, Pismo, Kern River and Havasu. Sandy Beaches. Being outdoors, scuba diving, dirt biking(I can teach anybody to ride), working/fixing house and gardening(spring flowers)

Favorite hot spots:

Warm water for scuba, adventure. Julian for hot apple pie and cider. Idaho for ATV, horse back riding. It is big planet, I want to see it. I have remodeled 2 homes on the w/e’s and now I want to build a list of new hot spots.

Favorite things:

Putting a smile on someone else's face by helping them. Fresh squeezed OJ, all fresh fruit. Getting out of house or town for the weekend. My 25 iTunes playlists. Any live music. Rainy days! Eating healthy.

Last read:

Fortune Cookie "Today will be the best day of your life". "Girl with Mid-West values looking for a guy with an edge". What are "Mid-West values" and "Edgy guy" in the Match.com scheme of things? Someone, please educate me. LOL!

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
5'0" (152cms) to 6'0" (182cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Dark brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Never
Never, Social Drinker
Occupation:
Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering
No preference

I am the technical arm of a sales team. I hate starring at a computer and DO NOT play games on them. I am a geek, but, I promise it is not contagious.. HA HA HA!

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Currently Separated
Widow / Widower, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (2)
No answer
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
No preference

I am continually amazed at the beauty in nature. I stop to smell the roses, watch the sun set and moon rise. I seek a long and prosperous life of truth and beauty. Open for discussion on your point of view :)

Languages:
English
English
Education:
Bachelors degree
Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

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