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43 year old woman
Sanford, North Carolina, United States

Seeking:
men 34-45
Within:
50 Miles of Sanford, North Carolina, United States
Relationship:
Widow / Widower
Have kids:
Yes, they live at home (1)
Want kids:
Definitely
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
A few extra pounds
Height:
5'2" (157cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

I'm not going to start off telling you about me. Instead, I am going say who and what I am looking for so if you do not fit the bill or if all of this scares you then you can simply move on. :) It might sound like I am looking for a dream man, and maybe I am, but I am certainly hopeful! :) I don't expect perfection, but it would be good to have most if not half of these qualities.

I'm looking for a man that likes to laugh and have fun, who is honest and hardworking even if it means doing yardwork, cleaning up around the house, loading some hay, or cleaning a barn. I want someone who is intelligent, who likes conversation on many topics, but someone who still has common sense. I want someone who is strong and stands up for himself, someone that doesn't let other people, including family members and friends, manipulate him into doing what they want or 'think' he should do. I want someone who will stand up for me when I need him to instead of letting guilt, fear, or other emotions get in the way of his taking action. I want someone who can make his own decisions but who is not controlling. I want someone who does not break promises or lie. I want someone who likes fantasy but prefers reality. I want someone who does not hide behind his work, who is not selfish, but is instead giving, sharing, and loving. I have no preference on culture, but I do not want someone that lets culture be a motivator of everything from guilt to honesty and obligation. I want someone who is handy, that likes to help around the house because he 'wants to,' someone that likes to think things out and then act on them. I want someone who will not ignore me, tell me to shut up (in any way), avoid me, or be 'unavailable' to me, especially when I need him. I want someone who is fun and creative in the bedroom, a professional in the boardroom, but who also has no problem getting down in the floor and playing with my son, watching comedies/romance/suspense, going for walks, reading good books to each other, taking family vacations, spending time with friends, cooking adventurously, and listening to wonderful music while dancing and laughing. I want a best friend, and I want a man who is interested in being married, not just dating.

Essentially, I want a real man. I have an adopted son who is now 6, so not only am I looking for a husband, but I am also looking for a dad for my son. I also had a small farm--Nigerian dwarf dairy goats for milk and show--and some chickens. I still have some of the chickens, but the goats are out on leases to neighboring farms until I can get them back in the future. IF I get them back in the future. My 'man' needs to love kids and be good with handling a rambunctious boy on occasion, I'd love to have kids, but adoption is the best route for that or someone who already has kids.

Does this sound like you at all? Then read on.

I am currently an adjunct instructor for a community college. I teach English and composition. I am over halfway to my doctorate in Education but taking a break from school right now. I love to laugh and have fun, whether it be reading a good book or watching a great movie. I like hanging out with friends and family. I'm realistic and down to earth while also being a dreamer and a go-getter. I am one of those people that doesn't like to be told NO, you CAN'T do that. Most of the time I will turn right around and show you that I CAN. :) I'm independent, yet I don't like to be alone. I love the beach, the mountains--anywhere new and exciting is good. I like a good hot mocha and I enjoy listening to everything from rock to pop to folk music. I would love to travel more. I've been up and down the east coast, but never out of the country; that sounds like such fun with the right person. I am optimistic, caring, loving, and giving.

I'm very creative. I sculpt polymer clay babies and paint dolls. I love photography and digital manipulation. I'm also a published writer. :)

Interests:
Alumni connections, Book club, Camping, Coffee and conversation, Dining out, Gardening/Landscaping, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Performing arts, Playing cards, Travel/Sightseeing, Video games
Sports & exercise:
Aerobics, Dancing, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
I have Birds, Cats, Dogs, Other
Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Libra
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

I like to go to movies, concerts, museums, a little shopping (including window shopping), parks, gardens, walking, fishing, some hiking, and more. I also like to take my son places he will enjoy. Myrtle Beach is one of our faves (and the mountains).

Favorite hot spots:

I would love to travel to Great Britain or even Costa Rica in the future. Right now we stay closer to home and usually the 'hot spots' are kid friendly. That doesn't mean I don't want to do more because I certainly would with the right person!

Favorite things:

My music interests VARY widely--from classical to country to pop. Newer music would be artists like Rob Thomas, Jack Johnson, John Mayer, Christina Perri, Adele, and more. Fave Movies--Dumb and Dumber, Goonies; I like romantic comedies and suspense

Last read:

RK Narayan's Malgudi Days and a book about Dyslogic Disorder

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'2" (157cms)
5'9" (175cms) to 6'1" (185cms)
Body type:
A few extra pounds
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes:
Hazel
No preference
Hair:
Dark brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker
Occupation:
Education / Teacher / Professor
No preference

See profile. I teach English.

Income:
$35,001 to $50,000
$35,001 to $50,000, $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship:
Widow / Widower
No preference
Have kids:
Yes, they live at home (1)
No answer
Want kids:
Definitely
Definitely, Someday, Not sure, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference

Culture --no preferences as long as you are open to new things and willing to share. There comes a time when 'culture' should not interfere with a relationship, so I wouldn't want that to be an issue. I am very interested in other cultures.

Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
No preference
Languages:
English
English
Education:
Graduate degree
Graduate degree

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