I am a recently divorced father of two wonderful boys, 9 and 7, who never thought that he would be back out in the dating pool again...but who is looking at it optimistically in the fact that I have another chance to find the perfect match and soul mate that eluded me in my first choice of marriage. I am athletic, intelligent, hard-working, honest....and mature enough to know when it is time for fun and also when it is time for work. I am stable and independant and I am looking for the perfect woman. What does that mean? Even I am not sure...but I think that I will recognize it when I see it. By that, I dont mean that it is based on looks. While that is important...there needs to be a physical attraction, I think that there are other important traits that I will be looking for besides a pretty smile.