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47 year old woman
Orchard Park, New York, United States

Seeking:
men 42-52
Within:
50 Miles of Eden, New York, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (2)
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
Height:
5'6" (167cms)
Faith:
Christian / Other
Smoke:
Daily
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

Little over a year ago I tried match. Met some interesting people, some really awesome friends, and some not so awesome people. With my past match experience, I think I have become a little wiser, stronger, smarter and more of a realist on what the expectations are with on-line dating. Guess 2nd time is a charm!

A year has brought lots of change in my life. Changed jobs, moved out of the country to the "big bad city"... well "burbs" as they say in Orchard Park. Wow is it bright here. Can't appreciate the stars and the moon on a clear night as you can in the country. Yes, still believe in the gravitational pull of the moon and the stars. Too beautiful not to observe and wonder. Believe in a higher power without adding religion into the mix.

I live by a basic code of ethics: Family first, work close second, and play hard when you have the time to play. My girls are top priority in my life and will always take the lead.

Learned so much the first time around on match. Big thing I have experienced with others is that dating when newly seperated or divorced doesn't work. Think people need to find themselves first, figure out what they are looking for, and then when they get themselves together start dating. It's a mix for disaster when dating someone who has been on their own for a while.

Was married 20 years, now divorced 6 years with two wonderful girls. Think I'm pretty independent when it comes to living my life, heck, I can even bleed an oil line after living in the country. lol.... Amazing what you can do when on your own .

What am I looking for with match???? Still not so sure. I know that being lonely sucks sometimes. It's nice to have that man in your life who makes you laugh and smile when your down. Having someone you look forward to seeing to share your day. That person you want to call first because you have good news to share or bad news. That someone you feel comfortable with when you need a good cry or a hug to get you through a rough moment. Someone you respect, who is wise, who makes you think before you make the next move. It would be nice to have someone to wake up to when you have that bad dream or know you can call in the middle of the night because your scared. It's always nice to be able to give back to that special someone in return all the above. It would just be nice to feel warm and fuzzy around a person who makes you take a deep breath and smile when you think of them. Most of all, having respect for each other and honesty in a relationship. Huge!!!! If you don't respect someone you can't have everything else. If someone isn't honest with you than you have waisted time. Mostly, when one or the other needs space, it's important to respect that space with understanding....heck, think that about 90% of the people on match are probably looking for something similar or they wouldn't be writing a profile.

What I absolutely don't want from match..... don't want to date a married man. Nope, not happening!!!! How is it that some men get away with on-line dating while still married...amazing! Don't want to date for one night stand, sorry! Don't want to experiment with different ideas or games, no can do!!!! Don't think it's wise to date someone 100 miles away from you, tooo hard!!!! Don't want a text buddy, have too many all ready! Don't want someone who thinks they can financially be taken care of, have my own finances to deal with!!!! Don't want someone who feels everyone owes them for living and breathing instead of what they can do for themselves!!!! I am sure there are more Dont's but these are the major one's I have learned from my previous match experience. Can't go down that road again, so if you are in this category, please don't waist your time.

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Gardening/Landscaping, Movies/Videos, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Performing arts, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Bowling, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Yoga
Exercise habits:
I exercise 1-2 times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

My dog Shadow was my buddy...we lost him after 10 years with us. Devistating to the family. Don't think I will ever get another dog after my big boy and unconditional friend.

Political views:
Conservative
Sign:
Scorpio
College:
Niagara University, Niagara University, NY
For fun:

Love to go to Casino for a beer. Always easy to walk into a Casino for drink than to walk into a bar by yourself! I enjoy home time watching a movie and relaxing. I'm a reader, so it's nothing for me to sit with a book and a glass of wine.

Favorite hot spots:

Don't have any really "hot spots" Don't hit the bars.

Favorite things:

I love being a nurse. I love people and helping people. I enjoy romantic movies, love stories, and CSI. Walking clears my head and relaxes me.

Last read:

One Day by David Nicholls...great book. Also, re-read the J.R Ward series The Blackdagger Brotherhood. Love it! Most recent Fifty Shades of Grey...wow!!! currently reading Gabriel's Inferno by Sylvain Reynard.

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'6" (167cms)
5'8" (172cms) to 6'0" (182cms)
Body type:
About average
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes:
Blue
Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Dark brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
Daily
No Way, Occasionally, Daily, Cigar aficionado, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker
Occupation:
Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness
Administrative / Secretarial, Executive / Management, Financial / Accounting / Real Estate, Labor / Construction, Legal, Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness, Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military, Retail / Food services, Retired, Sales / Marketing, Self-Employed / Entrepreneur, Student, Education / Teacher / Professor, Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering, Travel / Hospitality / Transportation, Law enforcement / Security / Military, Architecture / Interior design

Director of In-service's at Local Nursing Home. Long standing educational skills in end of life care, pain management, and death and dying. US Army when young, wild and crazy. In my next life I want a job outside the scope of healthcare :).

Income:
$50,001 to $75,000
$50,001 to $75,000
Relationship:
Divorced
Never Married, Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (2)
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Probably not, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
White / Caucasian
Faith:
Christian / Other
Christian / Catholic, Christian / LDS, Christian / Protestant, Spiritual but not religious, Christian / Other

Raised Roman Catholic. Non practicing since my divorce. Believe in a higher power that guides me each day.

Languages:
English
English
Education:
Bachelors degree
Some college

Nurse - Graduated in 1994 from Niagara University

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