I guess I would consider myself a light hearted person based on the fact that I have NO problem whatsoever with finding humor in life's little every-day conundrums. I also like to make people laugh, as I am totally a supporter of it being the best medicine. I definitely would consider myself a hard person to stereotype; I'm kind of a jack of all trades. I have my intellectual side, as I like to dabble in technology and don't mind a good video game session, which I know is just screaming NERD, but I also love to workout and stay fit and am usually training every day of the week in some form or another. I've been doing a lot of crossfit for the past couple months and I really like it! I keep a pretty clean diet but I'm definitely not obsessed with it though, as I will freely help myself to dessert if it's offered. I also like to read a lot, but tend to stick to fiction as I feel I get enough non-fiction in my everyday life as it is. I dont really have an all time favorite movie but I love the big battle movies like Braveheart, Gladiator, 300, and the like. Oh, and I'm big on quoting movies. Seriously, it's like 50% of my vocabulary.
I am definitely a dog person and absolutely love them over any other pet. Can't really say as much for cats. I am the oldest out of 4 kids and love my family more than anything.
I can definitely be indecisive, mainly when it comes down to deciding on the small things: where to eat, what movie to see, where to go (unless it's a "man-in-charge occasion" like valentine's day or something like that). I guess I just care more about the time spent with a person and not so much how it's spent.
I love food as well. One of my favorite snacks is to eat peanut butter with a spoon and wash it down with milk... Don't judge me. I've played the guitar for a long time and besides working out, it's one of my favorite things to do. I love going to the beach and just watching the sunset while playing something; makes me appreciate being alive.
Ok, what I'm looking for. I'm going to go a little outside my nature here and be pretty blunt. First off, lets be honest in saying that physical attraction is important. Anyone who says that it doesn't matter is either nieve or in denial. I put the time and surely the sweat into taking care of myself, and while I don't expect my potential partner to be a gym freak or a super model, I do expect some level of physical fitness. Ok, on to the second and most important part (I'm going to rant here a little): I'm ultimately looking for someone who is truly ready to move on from what I call the "about me" part of their lives. Too often in my experience, people will say they want a "real" relationship but are still stuck on their own life agendas. Now don't get me wrong, there is nothing bad about that. Everyone has dreams, wants, and desires. But unless you're ready and willing to share those with another person instead of inconveniencing that person in order to achieve them, or perhaps even accepting that you may have to give up some of them to be with that person, just as they might have to to be with you, then you best keep on keepin' on until you get it out of your system. Because in the end, in my experience, what makes a lasting relationship is for both persons to realize that there is no more "me"--only "us", and that everything done, every action taken, always has the other person's best interests at heart before your own. THAT's what I'm looking for because that what I'm willing to give. So if you come at me just out of a break-up and looking for some entertainment or carrying your games and all the BS that goes with them, then thanks but no thanks However, if you think what I've described above sounds like what you're interested in, then I'd love to hear from you.
