I hope to find an independant, happy, ambitious woman. A woman that doesn't "need" a man, who could handle this life on her own, with good friends and family, passions and loves. But, would rather have a partner, to compliment and be complimented. A woman that looks to a relationship for a safe and trusting place to get re-energized. Who understands that in a relationship two people can become even more free. I want a woman who gives her love, because she chooses to, and gives it with vulnerability and trust.
What I can offer... a Man who loves and trusts the Lord, can laugh at my own mistakes, that loves with vulnerability and trust, loves the safety of family, is ambitious, is willing to try, and isn't afraid to fail. A man that is pained in my heart by the sadness in the world, but can find the beauty in the world, and is hopeful. A man that is eager to grow old together, raise grand children, a man that doesn't want the kids to ever "really" leave the home. A man that knows that God gave us a world to explore, and knows that God intended this world to be explored together. A man that is secure being alone, and steady in his character when alone. A man that looks at a woman and sees in her, a sister, a mother, a friend, a complete person, that makes mistakes, is learning, is sad, is curious, is balancing all that life throws at her, and doesn't want or need to change her and is content in knowing that God has her on her own journey. And is here for her, when she needs me.
I can't promise you wealth, but I will try my hardest. I can't make you happy, happiness comes from within, but I can make you laugh. When you are mad, I will find the beauty in your anger. I can't promise that the journey won't be hard, but that God has a plan, and I trust that. I can't promise that I will change, or get better, or that I will even learn all of my lessons, but that I will keep asking God to help me, and that I will keep trying.
I'm looking for a friend, a partner, an equal.