These are great places to begin the date:
Angelini Osteria, Providence, Echigo, Matsuhisa, Piccolo or your choice. It’s bound to be a great start.
Next test the companionship, affection, conversation, and fun factor. Where’s he taking you next? What’s the weekend getaway offer? Palm Springs, Santa Barbara, Santa Monica, San Diego, San Fracisco, or Vegas. All should offer a first class hotel or resort.
Is he charming? Does he make you laugh? Is he doing fun things you like to do?
Next test: have him cook for you. Was the meal fun and engaging? Does he know what he’s doing? Was the wine selection the best you’ve ever had?
Does he live in a cool house? Does he have a cool job? Is he willing to make you the star and pamper you?
If all of the above happens, then that’s all you need to know. This guys in love.
The rest will fall into place.