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40 year old man
Atlanta, Georgia, United States

Seeking:
women 30-42
Within:
Miles of
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (1)
Want kids:
Definitely
Ethnicity:
Black / African descent
Body type:
About average
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
Cigar aficionado
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

I am looking for a reason to renew my membership. Wink and lets see if you are the one to make that happen....

I am looking for a passionate, fun-loving, positive woman to experience life with. While appreciate the winks and emails if you are unable to assist in stimulating the conversation through meaningful responses to my questions and thought provoking question for me I am pretty sure we will not got far in this process. While this medium (the internet) is a new way of meeting people there are some aspects of traditional meeting/dating which should transcend regardless of how you meet someone. One of those thing being showing interest in the person who has shown interest in you by asking question to assist you in making the determination as to wether or not this is something you want to pursue in "real life" (i.e. in person).....Ok sorry for getting distracted but, felt like I needed to share......

“Vulnerability is not weakness, and the uncertainty, risk, and emotional exposure we face every day are not optional. Our only choice is a question of engagement. Our willingness to own and engage with our vulnerability determines the depth of our courage and the clarity of our purpose; the level to which we protect ourselves from being vulnerable is a measure of our fear and disconnection.”

“As children we found ways to protect ourselves from vulnerability, from being hurt, diminished, and disappointed. We put on armor; we used our thoughts, emotions, and behaviors as weapons; and we learned how to make ourselves scarce, even to disappear. Now as adults we realize that to live with courage, purpose, and connection—to be the person whom we long to be—we must again be vulnerable. We must take off the armor, put down the weapons, show up, and let ourselves be seen.”

“Connection: Connection is the energy that is created between people when they feel seen, heard, and valued; when they can give and receive without judgment.
Belonging: Belonging is the innate human desire to be part of something larger than us. Because this yearning is so primal, we often try to acquire it by fitting in and by seeking approval, which are not only hollow substitutes for belonging, but often barriers to it. Because true belonging only happens when we present our authentic, imperfect selves to the world, our sense of belonging can never be greater than our level of self-acceptance.”

If you: have sunglasses on in all your pictures, live at the club, signed up for this service because it seemed cool but never check for connections (what's up with that), your social life consist primarily of tweets, instagrams and check-ins on face book, you have not made a decision to implement work life balance in your life and/or you look nothing like your pictures because they are professionally done or you manipulated them to death... we will not be a good match.

I'm sure many guys say they are looking for a life partner but, I really am. I'm not here for games, I am utilizing these services as a means to meet people and discover a connection with a special woman. If you feel you are here for the same reasons feel free to reach out and let's see if there is a connection. If you are not open to being vulnerable (ie. your past relationships have scarred and scared you so much that you are unwilling and unable to be open to the possibilities of true love) then we probably won't be a good match and I wish you the best on your journey.

Interests:
Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Performing arts, Playing sports, Travel/Sightseeing, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Basketball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Walking / Hiking
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Political views:
Liberal
Sign:
Aquarius
College:
Hampton University, Hampton, VA
For fun:

Listen to music, read, taste wine and relax

Favorite hot spots:

Beach

Favorite things:

Music, wine and movies

Last read:

The Alchemist, 7 levels of intimacy, The book of awakening, The Gifts of Imperfection, Daring Greatly, 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, The Mastery of Love and Blink

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
5'0" (152cms) to 6'5" (195cms)
Body type:
About average
No preference
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Bald
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
Cigar aficionado
No preference
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation:
Other profession
No preference

Corporate Auditor

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
Never Married, Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (1)
No, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
Definitely
Definitely
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Black / African descent
No preference
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
No preference
Languages:
English
No preference
Education:
Bachelors degree
No preference

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