UPDATE 2-2012*** Relocated to Savannah from CA***I have been taken down a life altering path of growth, appreciation and enlightenment. the past 3 yrs(all while keeping my inappropriate sense of humor, yes cancer can be funny) I wake up each day and realize whats truly important.. family, friends, people who have the b**ls to be straight with me, and all the little things we each take for granted. I have two choices, I can be a victim or I can be a fighter, who chooses to lead a productive, happy, inspiring life.....no matter whats thrown at me. Obviously I choose the latter. I still show you the array of pics so you can see the evolution.....where I was, how I fought, where I am now . So enough about me for now......men: we dont ( I dont) want to read about how hot and sexy you think you are. Please, let me be the judge..dont tell me you are a glass half full kind of guy, or you work hard and play hard, or you are down to earth,I really dont know what the F that really means . Tell me who YOU are and what floats your boat! I am not looking for a Prince Charming, A Mr Right, A Knight in Shining Armor, or any other silly cliche. am looking for someone who allows me to drop my "protect mode" and be vulnerable and in return you will have a fierce,loyal friend......for starters.
NY "broad" raised in S Ca.I have worked in the garment industry as well as the travel business. I am at a point in my life where I am very comfortable and confident in my own skin and with the woman into whom I have evolved.A combination of book and street smarts, strong,but is ok showing weakness, girly girl and tomboy,good woman,bad girl,quick witted and smarta$$ sense of humor rolled into one. I have a passion for food(LOVE sushi),wine (big bold reds),music and art, I love to cook, I believe in and practice good manners and random acts of kindness,ride harleys,drive topless (the car,silly!),wind in my hair music blasting singing like no one can hear.Or I can be low key,hang out watch a ball game on TV and do the crossword puzzle (in ink)Music is also a huge passion of mine.I always have to have something playing,my taste is very eclectic. Im comfy in a pair of sweats or evening gown( I know,how cliche')I can walk out the door with no makeup, a ponytail and ballcap or get all dolled up for a night on the town (ready in under an hour) I am equally comfortable at Tommy's or having haute cuisine. I have 1 dog who thinks my bed belongs to him (smile) I am a true Pisces through and through....which means I am highly intuitive,driven by my senses and can be very opinionated (but will always hear any other viewpoints on a topic)I love being on or near the water, it's soothing to my soul.
*** ABOUT MY MATCH***
I am not looking to rush into anything serious or get married in the immediate future.,I am looking for a companion and someone with whom I have common interests ,I am open to the possibilities of something more developing. I have always been attracted to men who know what it means to be a man, a warrior mentality who appreciates the differences between the genders( I really enjoy being a woman),is strong and confident in himself and his abilities. A man who knows the difference between being controlling and being in control,I guess you could say I am looking for the proverbial "Alpha Male"(not a caveman) and of course, we cant keep our hands off one another. "Be impeccable with your word”. So, I do not have any judgment to those who are not able to do this courageous truth telling thing……but I do know that if right off the bat someone misrepresents who they are, like their age, it will be for me a difficult starting point and an unlikely chemistry. And the problem will not be the actual age but the difficulty in presenting truthfully.