I am a genuine, sincere, honest individual who is looking for friendship and equality in a relationship. Due to my recent loss, I'd prefer to to take it slow. I will not introduce a man to my children until we have been dating for at least a year. I am an attractive 41 year old WOMAN, drama free and will not date anyone who is a control freak. I enjoy company but also enjoy my space. The majority of my friends are men and they are like brothers to me and are non negotiable people in my life so if you are the jealous type, stop reading here. I am not a jealous woman. I am secure with who I am and how i look and am not the girl who will go through your phone or your desk or personal papers /items and i expect the same courtesy. I am not a controller and like to have a date planned for me (surprise me)!