Rev Up Your love Life With These Tips!

sharpefocus

If "Cliché" were a person, I'd punch him in the face...

Close Window

sharpefocus has been notified that you want to learn about him.

Check back after a few days & see if he has added more details to his profile.

CLOSE

Like
Tell him why you like this photo. close

SUBSCRIBE AND SEND loading

« »

Active over 3 weeks ago

36 year old man
Fremont, California, United States

Seeking:
women 25-37
Within:
100 Miles of Fremont, California, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
Asian, Pacific Islander
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'5" (165cms)
Faith:
Agnostic
Smoke:
Occasionally
Drink:
Never

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

*So, two years ago, I wrote something like "...it's all about chemistry, it's all about common values, this experience has taught me a lot about myself, I like this, I like that," blaa blaa blaa--you know, generic, uninteresting self-promotional stuff that Match encourages you to say.

After years of failures and disappointments, punctuated by long periods of droughts, I thought to myself: "Ok, Stephen. Obviously nobody cares about your fluffy story." Or, I just wasn't her "type." Finally, I said "f*** that, I'm just gonna' say it like it is, and women can either love it or leave it. Experience dictates that it's most likely the latter. Either way--here it is, just like it is:

1. Do I have life figured out? Nope.
2. Are my bills paid? Yep.
3. Do I love my job? Nope. ('love the people though.)
4. Do I bust my a** during business hours anyway? Yep.
5. Am I completely happy? Nope.
6. Do I find reasons to laugh anyway? Yep.
7. Do I make enough money to live out the proverbial "American Dream?" Nope.
8. Would I be crazy enough to abandon my fringe-middle-class lifestyle to embrace the impoverished life of an indie music-producer, film-actor, and stand-up comedian, even at the expense of my dignity? Yep. Probably.
9. **Do I like cheese? Sometimes. Well, depends.

So there it is. All the cards are on the table. No--It's not meant to be "appealing." 'Certainly not "charming" by most standards. It's just what it is. That being said, I still hold on to hope, and will be moderately shameless in my pursuits. So, if you appreciate forthright honesty, and still see some kind of "silver lining," then, well, maybe we might just get along. And who knows, if we "hit it off," maybe years down the line, we'll be Hollywood's first couple--kinda' like Pitt-Jolie. Or something like that.


*This is an absolutely unnecessary, and extraneous footnote. **So is this. Hey, if it was at the top of the page, would it be called a "headnote?" What if it were on the side of the page? (If you said "armnote," then you've demonstrated your unerring brilliance.)

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Business networking, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Music and concerts, Performing arts, Religion/Spiritual, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Watching sports
Sports & exercise:
Baseball, Basketball, Football, Dancing, Martial arts, Running, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

Nope. No pets. Yet. But, I do want a dog. Preferably a big dog.

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Sagittarius
College:
University of California, Davis, Davis, CA
For fun:

For fun? Hm. I guess 'pretty much anything that inflicts minimal harm (barring boxing), and has a high joy-quotient. Recently: dinner with roommates, the gym, YouTube videos of debates on religion, Facebook. All fun. Minimal harm. High joy-quotient.

Favorite hot spots:

I'm no connoisseur when it comes to hot destinations (I don't go out much), so I'll say the first thing that comes to mind, and hopefully you'll think "Cool! me too! I love that place!"... Marin Headlands.

Favorite things:

Favorite "things?" Like hummingbirds? Rock Skipping? Lady bugs? Sunsets? Those kinds of "things??" Match can be so vague at times. Like all times. Anyway, I'm gonna' go with--traveling to new places, and road trips. Last Summer: Zion National Park.

Last read:

Last read? 'I guess the live 'round-by-round of a recent boxing match. Wait, actually no. This Match.com profile, as I edit it, yet again. While periodically revisiting the round-by-round.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'5" (165cms)
4'11" (149cms) to 5'7" (170cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Black
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
Occasionally
No preference
Drink:
Never
No preference
Occupation:
Education / Teacher / Professor
No preference

Teacher: middle school math/science.

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married
Have kids:
No
No
Want kids:
Not sure
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Asian, Pacific Islander
No preference

Parents: from the PI. I was born/raised in the Bay. If someone asked me "what are you?" I prefer to refer to myself as either "American," or "human." I'm not particular on ethnic identity, to be honest. Diverse world, but one human family.

Faith:
Agnostic
No preference

I'm on the fence on this one. I believe spirituality and virtue are real parts of the human experience, and that everything in the entire Universe is connected, but I'm not married to any particular belief system. Sorry.

Languages:
English
No preference
Education:
Bachelors degree
No preference

Also pursued/finished my Multiple-Subject Teaching Credential through USF. The Masters is still hanging in the balance.

Close Window

Your message has been sent to sharpefocus

CLOSE

Close Window

We encountered a problem sending your message to sharpefocus. Please try again later.

CLOSE

Finish by entering your Match.com sign in details.

Not a member? Sign up now »
Continue

Finish by entering your Match.com sign in details.

This lets you sign in faster next time.

By clicking "Begin Now", I agree to receive transactional and promotional emails from Match.com. I understand that I am free to withdraw consent at any time.
Continue
By using our site, you agree to the Match.com Terms of Use.
Already a member? Sign in here »

Close Window

Your message has been sent to sharpefocus.

See More Like him:


view more »

CLOSE WINDOW