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42 year old woman
Santa Monica, California, United States

Seeking:
men 35-45
Within:
20 Miles of Santa Monica, California, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (1)
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
Other
Body type:
Slender
Height:
5'3" (160cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Never

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

NICE GUYS DO NOT FINISH LAST. Especially NICE FUNNY guys. They are actually amazing, refreshing, and endearing. Anyone else...please stop reading and move on.

I debated between joining Match or writing a book: WHY I SHOULD BECOME A LESBIAN.
Except I don't have a good ending so am here to get some suggestions or possibly additional chapters.

About me... I was born in Kenya, Africa, of Indian-Portugese descent, raised here in the US, so please don't think I speak like the characters in "The Gods Must Be Crazy."

Things to know: I have a huge crush on Gordon Ramsey, but suck at cooking and would probably survive on Giligan's Island as long I found a coffee stand. . My high school yearbook was filled with, "Thank you for letting me cheat off you," and nobody remembered me at the reunion.

I have travelled all over the world since I was a child, and have continued to do so with my child.

Every boyfriend who dated me found their wife after me. I take that as a compliment.

I began running two years ago and surprised myself by running several marathons in 4 hours and 16ish minutes. Yet, I am the slowest Kenyan running each race.

I dread small talk. Can't even fake it. The small talk..
I have learned to stop calling my ex husband's girlfriend, The Hairdresser, and actually kind of like her now.
I made sure my son became good friends with Cruz Beckham so we could have playdates with his father. Note the word WE.
I have the best job in the world.

My dog speaks Russian because he does not understand any English commands. He is my successful relationship story with a male.

The key to my heart - making me laugh, a very kind, affectionate nature, NO SELFIES of gym workouts, and does not use text messages to have a conversation. Must have ambition - someone who understands that hard work is a requirement for anything of substance. Please don't talk about your car, your money, your ex's and call them crazy. Be nice to the valet guys and waiters. Smile at anyone in a wheelchair.

I don't follow rules. Am off to Thailand for 3 week mid- June and have zero concern about the military takeover that was announced hours after I purchased my tickets. Worse case scenario, I get stuck there for a bit and get to enjoy super cheap massages daily and explore the oceans and pristine beaches. I have travelled all over the world since I was a child, and continue to do so with my son.

I am a single mother with a very amicable, respectful relationship with my 9 year old's father. We share custody and work well together to raise our son who is absolutely awesome and the best person I know. He has taught me to look at the stars and learn all their names, to believe that it is perfectly normal to go to the beach at 7pm on a school night to test out his wet suit, and told me that God is an artist. He paints 90% perfectly, and 10% he forgets a few things because He is so busy. So when you are born, you are either the 90% that are the same as everyone else, or lucky enough to be the 10% that are more original. He especially has taken his headmaster's advice of "Create your own trails" to remind me that the detours in our lives are far more valuable.

When we fall, depending on how much bleeding there is, you either get up and laugh, ask for some help or a hug, and know that with patience everything heals.

Have learned that if you poison your child with salmonella from eating raw cookie dough, you can call 911 and have the hottest firemen show up to help deal with a febrile seizure.

My favorite quote is from the Seven Pillars of Wisdom :"All men dream: but not equally. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake in the day to find that it was vanity: but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act their dream with open eyes, to make it possible."

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Performing arts, Travel/Sightseeing
Sports & exercise:
Running, Walking / Hiking, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
I have Dogs
Pet Essay:

I have the cutest addition to my family... Cooper, an apricot maltipoo. Cooper the super duper pooper.

I used to like fish until our entire fish tank died over the course of 2 years.

Am allergic to cats and anything hairy.

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Aries
College:
University of California, Los Angeles, Los Angeles, CA
For fun:

Running, traveling, biking, reading, beach outings, photography, music

Favorite hot spots:

Thailand, Positano, Fiji - Vomo Island, Punta Mita, my bed during the rain, Cafe Luxe, any beach facing the sunset, and sitting by the piano listening to my son play magic

Favorite things:

Music: Coldplay, Lumineers, Mumford and Sons.
Crushes: David Beckham, Adam Levine, and Gordon Ramsey

Food: sushi, seafood, weakness: cupcakes

Last read:

Cutting Stone

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'3" (160cms)
5'10" (177cms) to 6'2" (187cms)
Body type:
Slender
Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Brown
Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Dark brown
Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Dark blonde
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Never
Social Drinker
Occupation:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
Never Married, Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (1)
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No
Want kids:
Not sure
Definitely, Someday
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Other
No preference

Born in Kenya, of Indian descent.

Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Spiritual but not religious
Languages:
English, Spanish
English
Education:
Graduate degree
Bachelors degree, Graduate degree

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