I am compassionate, fun-loving and confident. I believe in "Treating others the way you would like to be treated"....and I would like to be treated with honesty and respect. My families, friends, and connections are extremely important to me. I like to stay active, but also enjoy quiet time to relax and reflect. I love to dance (Latin is a favorite), hike, bike, cook, bake.... or just have a nice sincere conversation with someone. I prefer people who "do what they say" than "say what they'd do (and do, and do...)"...and others can also expect the same from me. I feel just as comfortable dressing up in stilettos for a night out about town as dressing down in a pair of jeans helping to build homes with Habitat of Humanity. I work out regularly to stay fit, both physically and mentally. I am looking for someone who is secure, positive, and confident in who he is AND what he wants....someone who is ready to share a genuine relationship of giving, receiving and compromising...no games or gimmicks. Life is too short for drama.