I am sorry to hear that there are other male members here sending nude or explicit photos. If i have flirted, liked or indicated interest in you and request your number or to chat, it is solely an effort to save both of us time and establish some common interest and hopefully further attraction???
Ok, I have made my fair share of mistakes when it has come to love and relationships(I am a man, but I have learned from every one of them.
Especially since I have trusted, when I should have stuck with my gut instinct. I have been guarded, when I should have been open, and I spoke, when I should have listened. Believe me I am not perfect, but the best thing about that is I am not seeking perfection either. I seek someone that is “Real” and has learned a thing or two in their years. Someone that has experienced the joy of love, life and laughter as well as the pain of disappointment, shame and the loss and sorrow of loosing someone close to them. These are not deal breakers or absolutes, but it has been my experience that I best connect with others that have the ability to look at themselves honestly and learned from the past.
I am looking for a fun, outgoing girl. She is the type that sings in the car, often not caring if others see or hear her. Her laugh makes others laugh. She is confident, feminine and strong willed and at times awkwardly clumsy. She has worked hard for all she has and where she is in life but is still willing to share it all for the right person. She is not rude but is sure to speak her mind. She is passionate about life, family, and friends. Her family and friends are amazed she is still single. She is also vulnerable and as strong as she is on the outside , her heart melts from a romantic song, fond memory from the past or some corny line/scene from a movie.
I want to have her back and encourage her to achieve all that she dares to dream. I want to make her feel beautiful, intelligent and important to me, even when she doesnt feel so beautiful or has had a bad day. I want to be seen as someone that is to be admired and respected by the people in her life. My biggest compliment would be when the people important to her, tell her how good I am for her. I want to value her opinion and even when we strongly disagree, she is secure in knowing that I always love her and the importance she has in my life.
I have a great job that involves working with children, so I am open to a relationship if my partner already has children. HOWEVER, I am also open to someone that does not want children as well. The topic is definitely open for discussion. If you do share custody, I prefer that your ex is a civil, human being that has the ability to be respectful to you and his child(ren).