I live a simple life. While I work too much and take too few vacations, I work hard to make a vacation out of every possible moment. I grew up and went to college in northern California and migrated to southern California 11 years ago; drawn by job opportunities and sunshine. I come from a loving family and having them move closer to me in recent years has really improved the quality of my life. I spend many a weekend at the beach with my dogs, surfing and playing with friends and family. I believe in making life’s memories then eternalizing them through years of campfire reenactments.
I come from a family of scientists and have a very logical/scientific view of the world. I am not religious. I do believe in spirituality since life content and happiness is perception dependent.
Unfortunately, dating in southern California is extraordinarily difficult. The truth is I’d rather barbeque with friends than in a bar searching for my soul mate through Jack Daniels colored sunglasses with 100 other drunk 21 year olds…no offense 21 year olds….just not me anymore. Working as a construction manager and insisting on friends with family has made dating rare.
I spend every day trying to improve the quality of my life, but there is one major component missing. That’s where you come in. I don’t expect that everyone I meet here will be a match….in fact, I am sure that most will not. I simply hope that many will become lifelong friends. If there is a chance for a match then it is worth a try.
I am looking for someone to help me navigate the waters of life and understand that life is not always smooth sailing. You must understand how and when and have the strength to tack in order to see places you’ve never thought possible and will never forget..….. who will draw me out of my comfort zone to show me new ideas to develop an expanded perspective while understanding those things that ground us and make us who we are and demand to see what more we can become.