My name is Stephanie. After being on and off this site for more than a year with little to no luck in finding "the one" - I have decided to take a break from it. I have met some amazing people who ultimately became good friends but I have yet to find a "love connection". I can no longer afford to waste time and money on something that is not panning out for me green. FB is always field an option if you can read between the lines. ;)
Who am I? This question is one that I still can not answer for as I learn, I grow and as I grow, I change.
The short answer is that I am the single mother of two beautiful, bright children, a ten year old boy and a four year old girl. The experience of raising them has taught me so much... how to laugh at myself, how to seize the moment and how to find joy in the simplest things that life has to offer. I am, without question, a very different person than I was a year ago today and I am immensely proud of the changes I have made in my life and grateful for the growth I have experienced.
I have the heart of a poet but the mind of a realist so I am constantly arguing with myself... sometimes aloud.
I have a very "strong" personality... I say what I mean and mean what I say. I am very playful by nature but know when it is time to get serious... though truth be told, I still struggle with being "serious" even when it is called for.
I like to make shapes out of the clouds. I enjoy people watching and often find myself creating stories in my mind about the strangers I see out and about. When my children are not in the car with me, I listen to my music very loudly and dance with abandon... yes, people look, some laugh... I don't care.
I believe that what you put out into the universe is what you get back so I try to put out positive vibes and good intention and surround myself with people who do the same.
I am silly, I love to laugh, I am sarcastic and brutally honest. I find myself attracted to "bad boys" but know what I truly need is a "good guy".
I believe yesterday is gone and tomorrow is not guaranteed so I focus most of my energy on making today the best I can. I take life seriously but try not to live it that way.... we only have one life and I for one hope to die laughing!
As to what it is I am looking for.... I guess I will know when I find it....