I tend to be attracted to guys who have confidence - they are comfortable with who they are. He needs a sense of humor. Someone who can debate with me on the issues of the day but still like to get silly and watch cartoons or carve a pumpkin to look like Elvis. But seriously, I would love to find a partner in crime who doesn't play games - I'm not into all that drama - and is equally happy exploring the world as he is vegging on the beach. I guess I am looking for someone who lets me be me. I am very independent. Some guys find that a little bit scary or threatening. I find it is helpful to have some similar interests but am not looking for a carbon copy of myself.