First things first...READ ME! The following may seem mean, but I'm just very blunt and upfront. If this offends you, I'm probably not for you. :-)
I'm not on here to play games, so I don't like my time being wasted. Physical attractiveness is awesome, but it shouldn't be your sole reason for trying to get to know someone or going out with them. I appreciate a man who actually reads my profile. Thanks!
So here's what....
I definitely know what I want...but I also know what I DON'T want, which is what the following list is comprised of...I'm trying to save us both some time here...
*Someone who is not interested in a relationship wtih God and growing spiritually.
*Kids. If you want them, I may not be for you--because I don't, and it's highly unlikely that I'll change my mind. If you already have a child though, that may be okay...keep reading.
*No men who have never been married with 2 or more children out of wedlock and/or who have different mothers. I am childless and not interested in having my life complicated with potential drama, amongst other things. If you're divorced, however, this isn't necessarily a problem.
*No emails where you just say "Hi"....I think this is self-explanatory, lol. The key word is PROGRESS.
*If your idea of communication is texting me from jump or all the time, keep it moving. I'm interested in actual conversations, and too much social awkwardness is annoying.
*Lastly, I have no time for fragile egos or male insecurity. I've found that some guys on Match just can't take no for an answer and want to reduce themselves to sending disrespectful and offensive emails when I'm not interested. If this is you, keep it moving or you will be reported to Match and blocked.
Now, that we've gotten that out of the way, let the partying commence! ...I'm an uberglamourous, stylish, ultra-feminine woman (with a mean shoe game :-)) who believes that chivalry is alive and well, and I expect to be treated accordingly. I'm interested in building a relationship based on honesty and a mutual respect for one another. Chemistry is key! I'm cut and dry and I know what I want. Meeting someone who shares this ideology and has similar interests would be terrific! I'm an extremely thoughtful individual and am hoping to meet a like-minded person. I'm an interior designer, consultant and writer, and I have a lot of hobbies (that I'm actually pretty good at) including photography, modeling, blogging and freelance make-up artistry. I enjoy staying active, so if you're the type to just sit around the house ALL the time, that's not for me--I like to read, enjoy going to museums, dining out and volunteering. I have a very sarcastic sense of humor, love being adventurous, dancing, trying new things, learning and being spontaneous at times! Also, just an FYI...I don't respond to "winks" or any type of correspondence that seems "tailored", so if that's your approach, you probably won't get a response. It's nice to know that someone is potentially interested based on more than just my pictures and has actually read my profile and put some real thought into an email they send...which reminds me...I'm also kind of a grammar snob, so if you don't know where to put a period or don't understand subject-verb agreement, you probably won't get a response, either.:-) Happy hunting!
