I'm a 40 year old woman that has 3 sons; my youngest (5) lives with me and my older two (13 & 15) live with their Dad in upstate NY. I live on 37 acres in the country next to several relatives and love it. My sons and work are my whole world right now, but want someone to share them with. I am in the military reserves/civil service, so my work schedule can be very crazy which seems to be a huge problem for most men. I value my family and want someone to share my life with. I think my family would best describe me as independent, loving, caring, giving, passionate and trustworthy. I enjoy all kinds of things: hanging out at home having movie night, BBQ with friends/family, dining out, dancing, visiting small towns and hanging out at the beach (during the summer we go every week). If you are interested or have more questions, give me a wink or email. I look forward to chatting and seeing where this leads us; even if it’s just friends—everyone needs friends.