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38 year old woman
Santa Cruz, California, United States

Seeking:
men 35-42
Within:
50 Miles of Santa Cruz, California, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'6" (167cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
I'll tell you later
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

People tell me my laugh is infectious. I can be sarcastic, sharp, a realist, but that shouldn't be confused with pessimism. I am a witty and guided woman who enjoys life -- I love to cook, climb, camp, play hard, laugh, go to the farmer’s market, listen to NPR, reflect, travel.... Few things rival a good glass of red wine and the company of people I adore. I’m honest, pretty handy, intense. I'm starving to learn Spanish. I’m thoughtful, I follow my commitments and relationships fiercely, yet I try not to take myself too seriously and know how to keep balance and fun in my life. I'm passionate; I have an opinion and I share it. And, I'm shy. I'm a sucker for vulnerability. I travel regularly, love the humility that emerges from being in other cultures, and feed on long talks and debates with people from different backgrounds. I can be honest, intense, smart, and gullible all at the same time. I’m not afraid to try anything new. I get ridiculously nervous trying something new. I’m a city girl and a country girl. I am a dog person without a dog.

I take my work seriously and I’m inspired and motivated by people who are driven to make our world a place where everyone is treated fairly and equally. My work is my passion - I work internationally with social activists on justice for poor rural women. But, my work is not what defines me. I would like to find a distraction (love of my life :). I'm looking for a partner in life. I love being active, traveling, cooking for more than one, great conversation, and the intimacy that you share with only your lover. I find quirkiness, wit, intelligence, and a good sense of humor sexy. I want trust, warmth, generosity of heart; I want to fall in love. I want us to be able to laugh our asses off, then work through something emotional, then debate something philosophical and then circle back to laughing. All while brushing our teeth.

I want a spark - a fire in my belly that tells me a connection's there. I want to be with someone who is thoughtful, ambitious, kind, humble, intelligent, and can laugh at himself. He’ll think smart is sexy. He’ll be a sounding board and challenge me. He is kind and generous to friends, family, and strangers. He’ll want to grow, learn, and take on challenges with me. Sometimes I'm sassy - sometimes he'll take it and sometimes he won't. He’ll enjoy going out to eat (and always be willing to share), but also enjoy staying home and cooking. I value intellectual curiosity, a lot, but what I really care about is integrity.

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Gardening/Landscaping, Museums and art, Exploring new areas, Travel/Sightseeing
Sports & exercise:
Cycling, Running, Walking / Hiking, Yoga, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
I'll tell you later
Political views:
Very Liberal
Sign:
Scorpio
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

Travel; drinking wine & cooking; yoga; baking; having long talks about life, politics, people; reading; hiking; road biking (I'll mtb if you can convince me); spending time with people I love; trail running; dinner parties; rock climbing

Favorite hot spots:

I love the Pacific NW and the whole Bay area. Big Sur (the southern part), Yosemite, the Pinnacles, Wilder Ranch, SC Mountain Brewery, Pacific Edge climbing gym. West Cliff. And I have a serious soft spot for Central America and East Africa

Favorite things:

Usually it's trail running, right now it's rock climbing... Conversation. My community. Friendliness. Avocados. NPR. Farmers. Laughing. Really loudly. Butter. Road trips. IPAs. Chocolate covered ginger. The sun. Purpose.

Last read:

I read a lot for work, so I don't do as much as I'd like otherwise. But, right now I'm reading a Dave Eggers book about Sudan, a book recommended by an Ayurvedic practitioner, and a book about how to become a better rock climber.

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'6" (167cms)
5'8" (172cms) to 6'3" (190cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
No preference
Eyes:
Hazel
No preference
Hair:
Dark blonde
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Drink:
Social Drinker
No preference
Occupation:
Education / Teacher / Professor
No preference
Income:
$50,001 to $75,000
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
No preference
Have kids:
No
No answer
Want kids:
Definitely
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
No preference

Buddhist leanings

Languages:
English
English
Education:
Graduate degree
No preference

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