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35 year old man
Playa del Rey, California, United States

Seeking:
women 25-40
Within:
50 Miles of Playa del Rey, California, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'11" (180cms)
Faith:
I'll tell you later
Smoke:
Cigar aficionado
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

I love nothing more than a good laugh. You just never know when something funny will happen or something funny will be said; but I believe it's important to be ready for it and ready to laugh! That means not taking yourself too seriously, and I know how hard that is because sometimes I'm not too good at that. Like most of us, I can be hard on myself and when we're hard on ourselves that can make us hard to be around, right? So while I have my short comings I am always sure to laugh every chance I get, it resets me and the people around me and brings balance and harmony to whomever I'm with, whether we realize it or not.

I want to love and be loved. That takes honesty first and foremost. To have that kind of honesty takes courage. So I'd have to say those are the two most important qualities I seek in a woman. White lies will pile up. Keeping someone's feelings too far above your own puts them on a pedestal. It's not possible to let someone down easy. I'm looking for a woman who has figured these things out, not a woman who just read them here and suddenly realizes they're true; because that kind of honesty and courage takes a lot of practice. It's not easy, and it can be painful, but it's always worth it.

I don't find it easy to sing my own praises. I'm to self critical for that I guess. What I can tell you is this: When I fail, I immediately do something I'm good at; like cooking an elaborate gourmet meal. When I have a hard day at work and everything falls apart, I come home and stay in the kitchen as long as it takes to cook tarragon chicken and grapes in a white wine reduction sauce served with asparagus risotto and vichy carrots. Or some equally elaborate meal (more often than not, such a meal would involve my barbecue!) It's a zen thing, it keeps me balanced. Whenever possible, I want to go to bed happy and leave frustration behind. The gym is an easy place to find balance. Cardio calms me (most times, not always) and weight lifting has immediate effects, attainable results that are exactly proportionate to the energy you put into the workout, a great way to feel good about yourself. I sail whenever I can because being on the water is the most relaxing experience I know of, and the quiet of a sailboat underway is a reward in and of itself. But there is a lot to be said for filling that boat with friends, beer and music too! Give me ten close friends over a hundred acquaintances; I'll take a barbecue get-together over a night club any day. I like dive bars and country music, car shows and rockabilly, and hip hop has it's place too. I'm generous to a fault, so gold diggers need NOT apply. If I were to let it happen a woman could bleed me dry in a month! I won't have my generosity taken advantage of, so if you're looking for a meal ticket; keep looking. I won't put up with a woman that wants me to pay her way through life, so if you show up looking to take advantage of my generosity, know this: I can ferret out a gold digger in half a heart beat and I'll be sure to send you home with half the check!

I want to meet a woman who is honest with herself and likes enough of the things I like to put up with me. We don't have to be the same person. The fact is, I wouldn't want to hang out with myself! I need some challenge, I need some yin to my yang. All women are beautiful, and all people are crazy. Let's see what happens!

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Gardening/Landscaping, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Shopping/Antiques, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering
Sports & exercise:
Baseball, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Taurus
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

sail, paddle with the Marina Del Rey Outrigger Canoe Club, barbecue with friends, woodworking

Favorite hot spots:

peru. never been but love the food and want to see the geology and cultural heritage. American southwest is beautiful, but everything pacific northwest is my idea of perfect

Favorite things:

I love food, eating it and cooking it! I'm a dam good cook. My work leaves me plenty of free time to sail and pursuit my hobbies like woodworking; but sometimes I just want to zone out in front of the tube and I'd prefer cuddling while doing so!

Last read:

not a big reader, but I read scientific american, discover magazine, and national geographic when I fly and sometimes at home. The last book I read was a compilation of poetry by WB Yeats

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'11" (180cms)
5'0" (152cms) to 5'9" (175cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
About average
Eyes:
Green
No preference
Hair:
Light brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
Cigar aficionado
No preference
Drink:
Social Drinker
No preference
Occupation:
Other profession
No preference

film industry

Income:
$50,001 to $75,000
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married, Widow / Widower
Have kids:
No
No
Want kids:
Not sure
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference
Faith:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Languages:
English
English
Education:
Associates degree
No preference

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