I'm 39 years old with an 11 year old son. I have a wonderful career which I love. I'm not looking for nor do I need a man to take care of me or my child. However you should have a job and own a vehicle... you'd be surprised just who's out there. I am tired of living the single life and am looking for a man that feels the same. I am looking for that special someone that deserves my heart. I know that there is someone out there I'm just waiting to meet him. I do not like drama or chaos in my life. I prefer dating one man and giving my all to him rather than dating several men at one time and causing confusion and hurt feelings. I don't go out to nightclubs and bars with the girls. I would rather be out enjoying myself with that special man in my life. I adore my son and I am raising him to be a good man. I expect any man in my life to respect me and my child just as I will him and his children. I believe that life is too short to waste it being unhappy. I am an affectionate and romantic woman and am looking for a man that is the same. I am a one man kind of woman and want a one woman kind of man in my life.