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30 year old woman
Kitty Hawk, North Carolina, United States

Seeking:
men 22-38
Within:
75 Miles of Kitty Hawk, North Carolina, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Someday
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
Height:
5'6" (167cms)
Faith:
I'll tell you later
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

I graduated from ECU with 3 Masters degrees in the field of Mental Health Counseling. I'm now practicing as a licensed clinical therapist. I absolutely love what I do! There's never a boring day on the psychiatric unit, that's for sure! I'm planning on going back to school for my Ph.D in the near future, but just trying to figure out the right timing. My Undergrad degrees were in Dance and Theatre. I love the Arts, and I love helping people. So I plan on combining those 2 passions by becoming an Expressive Arts Therapist, and hopefully one day will be opening my own private practice and studio.

I recently moved back to the beach, and the saying is true: "All things are cured by salt water-- sweat, tears, and the ocean."

At first glance, one might wrongfully assume that I'm "high-maintenance" because I love to dress up and be girly. And I do. However, they are usually surprised to learn that I also enjoy most things that you guys do--I stay active and like to get dirty. I'm definitely an outdoorsy person, and also a bit of an adrenaline junkie.

As a kid I went straight from muddy sports practices to a frilly pink dance studio, and I guess that love of variety has followed me into adulthood. I don't do particularly well with stagnation, and am always challenging myself to grow in different ways and discover new things. My favorite professor once told me, "You're just in love with the world." And he was right.

I live by the saying: "We are not human beings having a spiritual experience, we are spiritual beings having a human experience." I think spirituality takes on many forms, and cannot be contained into one set "religion," so I try to maintain an outlook of open-mindedness, curiosity, and gratitude at all times.

On a first date I'm more likely to pay attention to how you treat the waiter/busboy than to how you treat me.

I'm pretty outgoing, free-spirited and have tended to be the "class clown" in most situations. However, romantically I tend to prefer taking it slow at first, which may come off as being shy. I appreciate when a man takes the wheel when it comes to dating: making the first move but knowing the appropriate boundaries.

I'm a complex blend of liberal and traditional. I'm very career-driven but also family-oriented. I believe that there are certain things a woman should do for her man, like cook for him and keep a good house. But that's not to say she is a servant; there should be reciprocity. I guess I'm looking for a true modernized "gentleman": who honors courtship etiquette and treats a lady as such, but still values independence in a woman.

The top qualities I look for in a man:
(1) Honesty / loyalty, which I think go hand-in-hand with maturity
(2) Nonjudgmental and kind to others-- It is very important to me to find someone who has the capability to fully accept me and others exactly as we are in this moment. And I will naturally share that unconditional acceptance in return
(3) Good communicator, which takes being in touch with and in control of your emotions
(4) Compassionate
(5) Affectionate / warm
(6) Humble
(7) Self-aware, self-accepting, and genuine about who they are
(8) Has a good natural balance between his masculine and feminine energies--too much of either one can be a bad thing!
(9) Has motivation and goals-- I don't care how much money you make, as long as you have passion for what you do

Top Turn-Offs / Potential Dealbreakers:
(1) Cold and distant, or plays games / manipulative
(2) Obsessed with money and/or physical appearance
(3) Always needing to be "right" / close-minded
(4) Self-absorbed / Arrogant
(5) Unsatisfied or "bored" with just 1 girl
(6) Bad kisser!
Oh, and... (7) Smoking is pretty gross

Obviously physical chemistry has to be there, but I don't really have "a type" that I prefer. My "type" is a good, honest heart with good selfless intentions.

Interests:
Book club, Camping, Coffee and conversation, Business networking, Cooking, Dining out, Fishing/Hunting, Gardening/Landscaping, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Playing sports, Religion/Spiritual, Shopping/Antiques, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Aerobics, Baseball, Bowling, Cycling, Dancing, Skiing, Soccer, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
I have Cats, Fish
Pet Essay:

I rescued two kittens that needed a good home...They're chill. I really want a dog though...beagles are my favorite! I love all animals really. I was the kid who brought home every living thing I found outside and asked if we could keep it as a pet

Political views:
Liberal
Sign:
Pisces
College:
East Carolina University, Greenville, NC
For fun:

I'm an actress in Community Theatre plays, captain of an intramural softball league, and I teach hip-hop and tango dance classes. I have an easel out on my porch where I play around with watercolor painting; thats also where I take naps in my hammock

Favorite hot spots:

out West! I love the deserts of Arizona/Nevada. My all-time favorite place I've been to though is definitely Venice, Italy. I love anywhere with alot of history; for some reason that's romantic to me.

Favorite things:

The music on my IPod is insanely eclectic. A little bit of everything, and most of it no one's ever heard of. Being a dance instructor, having an inordinate amount of music of all different kinds is essential

Last read:

Most of my reading is spent on my patients' medical charts and research articles. In my free time though, Im currently studying the teachings of Buddhism. All-time favorite book: Crime and Punishment (Dostoevsky). I also read a lot of plays and poems

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'6" (167cms)
5'6" (167cms) to 8'11" (271cms)
Body type:
About average
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds, Stocky
Eyes:
Green
No preference
Hair:
Blonde
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation:
Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness
No preference

I used to be a classroom teacher; now my career is a Mental Health therapist. I work mainly doing marriage and family therapy, and treating addictions, active psychosis, and trauma/abuse PTSD. In my spare time I do some theatre, dance, and modeling.

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married
Have kids:
No
No
Want kids:
Someday
Definitely, Someday
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Asian, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other

I am first-generation German, and take a lot of interest and pride in my heritage. I am working on learning the language so I can speak to my grandmother in German while she's still with us. Unfortunately, my last name ends with me (all girls!)

Faith:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Languages:
English
English
Education:
Graduate degree
Some college, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

East Carolina University for all of my Undergraduate and Masters degrees. And I'll be returning there for my PhD in the near future. GO PIRATES!!! ...I bleed Purple and Gold!! =)

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