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46 year old man
Chandler, Arizona, United States

Seeking:
women 36-51
Within:
15 Miles of Chandler, Arizona, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (1)
Want kids:
I'll tell you later
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'11" (180cms)
Faith:
Christian / Protestant
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

About me: I am pretty much an all-American type of guy. I consider myself to be a good man and father. I live by the golden rule, but that doesn't mean I am always a boy scout. I can be inappropriate when appropriate as well...lol I am a lot of fun, funny, romantic, and very affectionate. I am told I am not hard on the eyes, but I will let you be the judge. I know how to say I am sorry and I am not stubborn about it. I have a little boy that is 8yrs old, so I can still like a big kid. However, I love great intellectual conversation over coffee or a drink and would like to meet someone that can have stimulating intellectual conversation as well. I think it is important to make that someone you are with feel special. As for activities, I like to play golf, which is pretty much my only vice (if you can call it that...lol). I also just took up archery and have become a bit addicted to it as well. I do like to work out, and stay in shape and stay athletic, but I don't let it consume me. I do think that taking care of ourselves is important individually as well as in a relationship. I also like dinner, dancing, walks, movies, a night on the town, or a night on the couch with the right person. I do like to spend time with my family and I would want family to be important to my partner as well.

I like all sports, but I am a big football fan, I like my Dallas Cowboys and Texas Longhorns. However, I am not opposed to someone that likes other teams as I think it brings a little friendly competition in.

What am I looking for is someone that I can connect with on different levels and have chemistry with. Someone that is attractive (let's face it, there is a reason we ask for recent pictures). Someone that I can be friends with as well as a partner. I really like someone that pays attention to the little things. I want to meet someone that can make me feel like I am as important to them as I am confident I can do for them. Someone that can say "I'm sorry" or "I agree to disagree." I am very open in communication. If you find your stubbornness/foolish pride an endearing trait, I would pass. I would prefer to be around someone that is not self absorbed but cares for those around them.

I am a positive person, with positive energy so I want to keep company with those that are the same. I am a Christian that has a strong commitment to my faith. I am looking for a person with Christian values as well, and I strongly believe that faith is a value that is critical in a relationship. Not an Uber-Christian that is judgmental and overbearing. Have faith and be normal too...lol.

I think that trust and respect are very important and worth building and keeping in a relationship, so please be honest and open. It is that communication be a foundation to a relationship. It is important to be open and that we really listen to what the other has to say. I would like someone that will seek first to understand, before being understood as I follow that principle.

I have a son that is with me half the time. My ex and I are amicable as we felt this was the best way to proceed for our lives and move on. Because we have a little boy we are friendly, but not friends. There is no drama between us, we have just taken different paths.
I would also like someone that does not have a drama filled life, or is addicted to a drama filled life. Also, please be someone that is actually looking for a relationship and not addicted to the attention on match. I am looking to meet someone that is actually looking for a relationship, not just to date around. I don't want to put negative stuff in my profile, but this seems to be a trend.

Also, I feel at peace with my life past and present. I am ready to give someone a great relationship/friendship.

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Exploring new areas, Playing sports, Video games, Watching sports
Sports & exercise:
Football, Golf, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, VolleyBall
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

I have a very affectionate Boxer named Natasha, if you meet her, she will probably steal your heart.

Political views:
Some other viewpoint
Sign:
Sagittarius
College:
University of Phoenix, Phoenix, AZ
For fun:

I enjoy movies, coffee/cocktail and conversation, sporting events, spending time with family, and working out. I do enjoy the night on the town, but I can also stay in with a movie and couch. A night out or in, I am good with the right company.

Favorite hot spots:

My favorite places in the world are Austin Tx, Maui/Kauai Hawaii, San Diego, CA and of course...Las Vegas. Here in Chandler, I like Z Tejas, Zocolos, Zipps (wow, they all have a Z..total coincidence). I am open to trying more fun and cool places.

Favorite things:

I like sporting events, playing golf, and going to the movies. One of my favorite things is to sit with someone and have coffee or drink and just talk in a philosophical way about alot of different topics.

Last read:

The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, and alot of textbooks. I would love to hear about what you are reading!

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'11" (180cms)
4'11" (149cms) to 5'9" (175cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Blue
Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Dark brown
Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Dark blonde
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation:
Education / Teacher / Professor
No preference

I am an Academic counselor

Income:
$35,001 to $50,000
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (1)
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
I'll tell you later
Definitely, Someday, Not sure, Probably not, No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference
Faith:
Christian / Protestant
Christian / Catholic, Christian / LDS, Christian / Protestant, Jewish, Spiritual but not religious, Other, Christian / Other

I am a person of Faith (not religion...they are not the same).

Languages:
English
English
Education:
Graduate degree
Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

Master's in Business Administration,

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