About me: I am pretty much an all-American type of guy with a good and compassionate outlook. I consider myself to be a good man and father. I live by the golden rule and try inspire others to do the same. That doesn't mean I am always a boy scout though, I can be inappropriate when appropriate as well...lol I am a lot of fun, funny, romantic, witty, and I think it is important to make that someone you are with feel special. I am told I am not hard on the eyes, but I will let you be the judge. I also know how to say I am sorry and I am not stubborn about it, you shouldn't be either. :)
I have a little boy that is 6yrs old, so I can still like a big kid. However, I love great intellectual conversation over coffee or a drink and would like to meet someone that can hold stimulating intellectual conversation as well.
As for activities, I like to play golf, work out, and stay in shape/athletic, but I don't let it consume me. I do think that be taking care of ourselves is important individually as well as in a relationship. I also like dinner, dancing, walks, movies, a night on the town, or a night on the couch with the right person. I do like to spend time with my family as well and I would want family to be important to my partner as well.
I like all sports, but I am a big football fan, I like my Dallas Cowboys and Texas Longhorns. However, I am not opposed to someone that likes other teams as I think it brings a little friendly competition in.
What am I looking for is someone that I can connect with on different levels and have chemistry with. Someone that is attractive (let's face it, there is a reason we ask for recent pictures). Someone that I can be friends with as well as a partner. I really like someone that pays attention to the little things as well. I want to meet someone that can make me feel like I am as important to them as I will them. Someone that can say "I'm sorry" or "I agree to disagree." I am very open in communication. If you find your stubbornness/foolish pride an endearing trait, I would pass. I would prefer to be around someone that is not self absorbed but cares for those around them.
I am a positive person, with positive energy so I want to keep company with those that are the same. I think that trust and respect are very important and worth building and keeping in a relationship, so please be honest and open. It is that kind of communication that should be a foundation to a relationship. It is important to be open and that we really listen to what the other has to say. I would like someone that will seek first to understand, before being understood as I follow that same principle.
I would like someone that does not have a drama filled life, or is addicted to a drama filled life. I am laid back and have no drama in my life. My ex and I share a little boy and we are at peace with each other and have a friendly, but not friends relationship. In other words, we are not at war and do what is in our son's best interests. We don't hang out, but we don't hate each other either.
Also, I feel at peace with my life past and present. I ask that you are too. Please, really be ready to move forward in life and to be ready to share a life with someone. I am ready to give someone a great relationship/friendship.
Also, my description of me is accurate. There is no reading into it, or underlying tones. It is just straight forward who I am. Please I ask you be the same. No games, no secret code, just be who you are.
Remember, life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you respond....so, respond!
