I figured it was about time to "re-update" this thing. I will be honest, I don't put much faith in this site, and NO that's not me being a downer, but realistic. This site, any other "dating" sites, and we all know what they are, and the phone app.....ALL guys seem to want one thing....even the "in a relationship and seeking friends' guys. SO, what am I looking for you ask?...Will let you know when I find it. i can tell you I don;t have a long laundry list of "this and that's"...."yes and no's".....like most of the gay guys I come across. Funny, at 38, almost 39, I am too old for some, not young enough for others....OR too big for some, not big enough for others, not gay enough, etc....the list can go on and on. I see these lists and people wonder why they are still single? REALLY?? I have my wants and likes, but I don't discount anyone because of their hair color, waist size, or kind of car they drive. i want someone to know ME for me, not what maybe on the outside, that can always change, and usually does. I want some one to just know by looking at me that I feel mad, sad, hurt, scared, etc. Similar interests would be nice, but I never count out trying or learning something new. Never been big into watching sports, but if someone took the time to explain things to me, i could at least pretend to be interested while you watched with your beer, lol.....as I play word with friends, sitting at your side.
My life took a major crap a few years back and I have been desperately trying to get "that" back, and then I realized...."that" wasn't working for me and the universe it it's mysterious way, brought that to my attention. So, now i am trying to re-find me, and would love to discovery myself with someone, share new things, thoughts, laughs, tears, etc. I am NOT a big fan of pictures of myself, so what you see for now is what you get lol.
I like tv, movies, LOVE Glee, Once upon a time, Revenge, home improvement shows, comedies, some "reality" stuff....open to what ever. Music, like pretty much all, nothing too hardcore, nothing to derogatory to women, races, etc. I don't drink too often, personal thing, but I don't mind if you do. I am a jeans, shirt, ball cap sorta guy....I am far from "high and mighty" or overly materialistic....YES I like nice things, but they are not a much have for me.
I am an "all around ball player" IF you get me, better to know that off the start, since some seem to think that is the most important part of chemistry between two people. Nothing TOO far out, but again, always willing to try something new with my partner.
Not sure, what more to put here for now. Check me out, if at the very least you make a new friend...unless you are also one of those who when you mean friends, you mean "friends" and you have to see me naked and know how big my junk is and if I cant host before you even want to be friends.....
Sorry if this all sounds a bit abrasive, but, no sense beating around the bush. I want someone to compliment me, not complete me. Your negatives can be my positives, and vice versa, Want to find someone to be silly with again, sometimes I feel to shy and reserved to let myself go, maybe you can help me with that!