I came out at 30 and thought it would be maybe a few months before I found Mr. Right and rode off into the sunset with him. Oops - it didn't exactly work out that way. But I'm a pretty independent guy and for a while was pretty content being on my own.
Life is pretty good, but suddenly I've started to feel like sharing it with someone could make it even better. I'm not sure what happened (seeing Brokeback Mountain? Turning 40?) but I'm definitely ready to give this dating thing another try.
Who am I? I'm smart, educated, articulate, talkative (sometimes a litte too much), musical, masculine (but able to camp it up when appropriate), funny, thoughtful, somewhat athletic, and somewhat dashing, if I do say so myself. I enjoy the city (shows, opera, restaurants) but also love getting out of it to go to the beach, skiing, or on a long bike ride. I love to sing, and perform with a chorus several times a year. Family is important to me. My parents are no longer living, but I see a lot of my sister, her husband, and my two nephews (6 and 9), as well as my aunts, uncles, and cousins in Virginia and New England. I LOVE to travel - once a year to Europe, once a year to Central and/or South America, and many driving trips to the New England coast and mountains. Come fly (or drive) with me!
I'm not looking for a guy who is physically perfect, but he should be decent looking and in decent shape. He should be kind, warm, smart, and have a sense of humor. He should be emotionally evolved, but still have some youthful energy. He should be capable of love and commitment. And it would be great if he also likes to travel, since I'm a little tired of taking trips on my own. . .