i'm just looking for someone special to spend time with and get to know. I am seriously looking for companionship for life, someone i can love and who will love me as we encourage each other to be the best we can be. i get told a lot that i'm a funny person, i try to look at the lighter side of things, i'm an optimist and a spiritual person but not religious, per se. i love the god/dess of my understanding but i have no need to define or name it. it is. i love poetry and Buddhist philosophy, i love my awesome friends and i love my cat. life is a cabaret old chum, and most people are just wallflowers. time to dance.