I am a midwest guy who's been here for about two years now. I'm still trying to find my place here as I left a lifetime of friends and amazing family back in Chicago. I love everything about living in SoCal as it gives me the year-round ability to do what I love most; be outdoors. I have a pretty high energy level and don't sit idle for too long, however I don't mind chillin' every now and then for the right reasons. I hope to find a girl here who has a similar energy level and an adventurous spirit. I am looking for someone to simply have fun with at first, share good times and get to really know each other, leading to a long-term relationship. I do not multi-task, meaning one girl gets my complete attention and I deserve the same. I'm pretty self aware so finding a few words to describe myself to you is not that hard. I am a confident and strong guy but don't need to be the loudest one in the room. I am a good listener and have a level head even in difficult situations. I tend to do the right thing even when it might be hard. I believe that a relationship, like anything worth holding on to takes an honest and consistent investment, both in time and actions. I also believe in the magic/mystery of chemistry - and there are no checklists for that. I try to give without expecting anything in return. I am a hard worker, like to keep my house clean and a have a tool and the ability to fix damn near anything. I actually like to exercise and couldn't do without it. I am not obsessed with it though as I like to think that a great pizza and beer are not the enemy. I just like balance. You; emotionally available and looking for the same things I am in a relationship. I don't want someone who likes everything that I do but rather someone who can expose me to some wonderful new this and thats. You are playful in life and love. You like a strong emotional and physical connection. Intelligence is as sexy to me as a killer pair of heels and I am not threatened by a successful or smart girl. You are more concerned with the quality of the relationship than the physical things that some are so drawn to. I am passionate about my career, my work and love what I do. I don't care how much money you make as long as you love life and step into each day with full intention. I hope you are the same. So, you get a great guy who is a bundle of good energy, will treat you right and never take you for granted and I get a playful, smart, sexy and most important REAL girl who cares truly cares about the world around her.