My perfect match is that special woman who enjoys life. There's nothing wrong with watching tv, but just don't be a couch potato...Get out and experience life...Enjoy. Be fun, energetic, adventurous, romantic, playful...laugh a little...Show your beautiful smile. Respect the man you love and enjoy his romantic personality. A true and valued relationship with great communication. Kids are wonderful...I have two myself (but don't live with me), but is not a requirement whether or not you want to have any or more children. Looking for that true soulmate who wants to be treated special and loves to be romanced. ladies...I know there is that special someone out there, who doesn't love abusive relationships or dominating men...I don't understand and would love for someone to explain to me why women always run back to men that treat women with no respect.