I've always said that if I was single at 40 I was going to take a trip to Jamaica to get my groove back like Stella. Well, needless to say I never made it to Jamaica so I'm here instead. I would describe myself as intelligent, confident, outgoing, respectful, adventurous, secure, versatile (I am as comfortable in heels as I am in tennis and cap, well actually heels really hurt), nurturing (make sure he’s fed, bathed, and clothes are together, just the motherly instinct I guess; but let him know he’s all man), passionate (candle-lit dinners and spontaneous surprises), with a great sense of humor (laughing is good for the soul; besides, if you’re laughing you’re not arguing).
I enjoy outdoor activities such as hiking, biking, skiing, camping; ok honestly, I've never done any of these things but would probably like them if it was with someone willing to show me the ropes. I am very adventurous and spontaneous and willing to try anything once, except bungee jump and skydiving, don't think so! I am somewhat reserved until you get to know me. I'm very thoughtful, honest, and a hopeless romantic. I would love someone to accompany me in taking walks, having picnics, going to events, engage in good conversation, and exercising together. I love to travel but haven't had the opportunity to explore different parts of the world. I would love to take that adventure on with that special person.
Gentlemen, please continue reading, and if you are not, "on to the next one". I would like to meet someone who is interested in becoming friends first and if there is chemistry may lead to something more. My ideal mate would be physically fit, have a good sense of humor, romantic, compassionate, family oriented, ambitious, respectful, a good communicator and great listener. Communication is very important to me and I believe is the key to a successful relationship.
The man that will get my groove back will be deep enough mentally to stimulate me and intellectual enough to keep me. He will not be self-centered or self-absorbed. He will have a good heart and enjoy helping others. He will enjoy giving and receiving massages and foot rubs. He’ll enjoy public displays of affection like holding hands and subtle kisses. He will be thoughtful as to leave lil notes of endearment or inspiration just because. Most importantly, he will put God first in his life and believes that when he leads you to me I will be waiting with open arms. For I will not seek you but you will find me.