I'm a good guy who finds himself working a lot. I love my job but I also need to realize there's more to life. Those who know me would say I'm laid back for the most part, but I'm also spontaneous as can be. I recently moved to Hoboken and trying to appreciate my new settings. I love to travel and will always remember my cross country roads trips until I am old and gray. My match would need to have a sense of adventure, even if we're just staying somewhere local. She should also be willing to try my cooking. I'm tall so girls who like wearing heels, feel free to say hi, but I would rather flip flops or sneakers be your first choice. I pay much more attention to personality though. Having a good conversation, telling a few good jokes, sharing an interesting view on politics or some literature, art, or something your passionate about would be more interesting to me than matching your outfit. Basically, be passionate about something, anything. I wear a suit and tie every day, so any chance to relax with t-shirt and jeans is great.
I appreciate the natural beauty of women, so the ability to be yourself is a must. Even though I have no problem telling you how beautiful you are, you should have confidence and self esteem.
I'm happy staying in to watch a movie or finding a hidden gem of a restaurant with amazing food. I like to read, and love buying old books. I could spend a whole day in a library or old book store. Even though I don't drink coffee, I love the smell of coffee and consider old coffee shops in little towns one of my favorite places to stop.
I've moved around a lot when I was young so it appears I have developed an appreciation of different people, cultures, perspectives, etc.. I do however, appreciate a good debate because I like hearing or learning something new. I studied sociology in college and will always admire how people interact.
Hiking in the mountains, surfing, anything at the beach, beer on the porch, bbq cook-offs in the back yard, music pouring out of the front windows, new years in new orleans, or halloween in salem mass. All typical adventures of mine.
I love music too. Between music and art, I couldn't imagine a better way to express one self. Some stuff is just out there, but I'll try anything once.