I am a dichotomy in that I am strong and confident yet gentle and loving. I am an old school romantic who believes chivalry isn't dead...walks hand in hand as the sun sets, stealing a kiss at a red light, shopping and cooking together, scrubbing her back while she enjoys her bath, sensual massages, passionate kissing for hours, cuddling in front of a roaring fire sipping wine, listening to soulful music and falling in love, morning coffee, midnight champagne, pray and worship together! I seek my best friend, confidante and intimate, sensual lover; in that order. Someone independent yet dependent on me for security, fellowship and unconditional love; no changes necessary.