Hi Im Jason. I have had 2 main (over 4 years) adult relationships in my life and i have to admit I was the jerk. Over the last 3 years something has changed and im ready to settle down a bit and move on. The last person i was with for 4 years and when i turned myself around to become a better boyfriend, she did just what i expected and became me. Im ready to start fresh and find love again but i understand its baby steps. Speaking of...., eventually, i do want a little girl. My niece hanna, in my pictures, comes up to stay the weekend with her uncle jason every once in a great while but i love to have her. It can get hectic after a few days which is the good part of being an uncle but I know the sacrifices i will have to make when i meet the right person.
Its hard for me to date the average 9 to 5 female because I am a personal trainer and massage therapist among other things (real estate, modeling etc) but being in the service business I go to clients when I get calls. During the week monday through thursday mainly but it is 7 days a week unless i have hit my personal quota for the week but being the money driven mentality i have i try to take whatever clients i can. I do very well with what I do but would need to be with someone that is flexible for time or even works nights as i basically work 3 to 11 monday through friday. If i have no plans and a call comes in i will take an earlier appointment if it doesnt disrupt what/who im with. Sometimes I may get no one and sometimes it may be a few. Since im self employed i can take off when i want but I try not to so i can finish paying off my houses and business expenses. I know this may be a no go for some and would rather get it out in the open but this is why I am on match, its not easy to find someone that, right off the bat, can accommodate for that work schedule.
Over the last few years my interests have started to change. Before i just wanted to casually date and if i found someone great. Now i am interested in trying to find someone and relax a bit. I do want kids in the future and would like to find someone to start a life with.
Money is a major drive in life for me which is probably why i have achieved what i have. I never want to be financially unstable but i also dont want to be handed anything. I will work hard to be able to play with money but I also am saving for another, future, business venture hopefully a small family business that can be a pick up for wherever we move and have flexibility with children.
Well i know this may seem weird but i have never really gone on dates. I always feel pressured to sit in front of someone and have to come up with something to say, probably because i never went on that many. I feel like this puts me in a defensive mode and im always insecure and cant be myself. I love to cuddle, my favorite thing to do, but meeting someone for the first time im sure this can be an awkward situation. A casual NON DINNER ( I dont eat out, or if i do its very rarely) and i typically dont drink that much throughout the week. A day at the beach, volleyball, walk in the park, take the dog for a ride, bowling....something fun then the traditional cookie cutter date is what i like. And even if dinner is a way to get started, let me cook for you...watch tv, movie. something along those lines :) Depending on the weather have you ever had a first date at six flags? I havent but i bet that would be fun too, im sure you get my point :)