I'm someone that can carry a conversation for the sake of not allowing things to get dull. I can accomplish things on my own, and I know my role in my own life when it comes to being in different friendships/relatonships. I'm smart enough to make a sandwich, but above making them on a dinner date. I know how to get my own way and make you think it was your idea ;))
My social life needs a bit more excitement, maybe making new friends or just one. Caring about my health is important and feel the person I am with feels the same. I don't and never have or will do a one night stand....just to make that clear. I am sure there are many people on here looking for just that. I may kiss you on the first date if I feel there will be a second one, but keep your hands where they belong.
I'm not looking for someone that parties all the time. Its nice to let loose once in a while, but I have a life outside of clubs and bars. There's more to life than wasting it in a setting that doesn't have much to offer. Speaking of which, I have a lot to offer and if you can seduce my mind, you just might be able to seduce my body.
I also ask to respect a girls privacy, I don't give out my personal contact info until I reach a comfort factor. So please don't ask me out for coffee or dinner in your first letter. It just won't happen. And in addition...throwing down your number or email address in the first letter also seems too pushy to me. Please hold off on this for now. I'm very patient and hope you are too. I am also interested in female friendship....and then....